I have to admit, that after reading a few posts and threads, this whole question of 'identity' is driving me a little bit crazy, I honestly don't think I've questioned my identity as much as I have since I joined this forum!
'Is it wrong that I'm proud of my Greek heritage?', 'Do I actually have any Greek heritage??', 'Should I wipe out all Greek things and just concentrate on the Cypriot things?' 'But then what language would I speak?' 'How could I speak the distinctive Cypriot dialect without the using the Greek language as a basis?', etc....
Now you can see why it's been driving me crazy!!
So I decided to stop questioning my identity and confess that I am very proud British Greek Cypriot! There I've said it...
Personally I feel that My ‘Cypriotness’ is a fusion of (Mainly) the Greek and Native Cypriot cultures and that I DO have Greek heritage and am very proud of that fact (and I know that that might alienate some Turkish Cypriots but we share the Cypriot culture and the Greek and Turkish culture are so similar and infused with each to the extent that Greeks and Turks argue as to who came up with what first and who influenced the other most... ) but I am Cypriot first and foremost and then Greek.
So I can speak, write and can read 'Modern' Greek, but I speak the Cypriot dialect, I know many Greek Dances that come from all over Greece and Turkey, but I mainly dance the Cypriot dances, I eat Souvlakia but I don't roast a whole lamb on a spit, I crack red eggs at Easter, but I also eat flaounes, I listen to Greek music, but I also listen to Cypriot music (which makes me feel very proud..), I sure do love to dance to a Zembekiko or a Greek Syrto, but what can beat a Kypriako Zembekiko and a Kypriako syrto? I love dancing a traditional hasapiko at a wedding, but my favourite bit is when the Bride and Groom dance together, or when the Koumpari dance together, I love Pastitsio and FaKi, but I know them as Makaronia tou fournou and FaGi, Greek coffee, Turkish coffee? Great but I like a nice kypriakon cafe...(Oh and who can beat a good British cup of tea?? )
All that is me that is my indentity that is who I feel I am...
Yes I don't agree with people who shun the traditional Cypriot way of doing things in favor of the Greek way of doing things (however similar..), and who feel that Greece is 'the Mother land', but they are entitled to feel like that as long as they don't impose their opinions and feelings on anyone else...
What we have to do in Cyprus is accept and embrace each others similarities and differences and have respect for each other, instead of imposing things on people, and having silly arguments about 'whether Cyprus really ever had any Greek heritage, or whether we are all of I don't know, Persian decent’... for example...
And that’s my two cents worth...