Welcome back again Murataga.
Now to answer your question:
The whole of Greece and Greek people have been under foreign rule for centuries, mostly under the Ottomans. During their rule the Ottoman Turks colonized many of the areas they had under their rule, and many of those that the Ottomans ruled became Muslim, and therefore Muslim/Turkish minorities formed in those territories. This happened in Cyprus, in most other big Greek islands, in mainland Greece, in Bulgaria etc.
When Greeks started gaining their independence this didn't happen in one go. It happened gradually, with Greek territories that were under foreign rule being liberated either by war or they were given to the Greek state.
Cyprus was just a territory under the British, not a country, just a colonized territory. In fact Britain had some proposals that Cyprus would be given to the Greek state under some conditions long before 1960.
For the great majority of Cypriots liberation meant ending the British colonialism in Cyprus and joining the Greek state like it happened to the other Greek parts when they were liberated.
Union with Greece was Cypriots right. In fact the resolution 1541 about decolonization defines "integration into an independent State" as a legitimate option for the colonized territories to choose from.
http://www.un.org/Depts/dpi/decolonizat ... ration.htm
The British could have just make a referendum as early as the 20s or 30s and ask Cypriots to choose their own destiny in a democratic way. Nobodies human rights would be violated, there would be no violence, no refugees or anything like that. That would be the democratic and also legitimate and peaceful way to go.
I understand that TCs might not liked union with Greece for their own reasons. However the
main reason that TCs turned against GCs and their cause is because they were used by Turkey and the British colonialists in their "divide and rule" policies in order for Turkey and Britain to get a piece of Cyprus that they wanted for their own geopolitical interests.
Thats until 1960.
After 1960 and especially after the end of the intercommunal conflict in 1968, most Greek Cypriots accepted that Cyprus would be an independent state (although what they gave us was more a semi-independence).
The coup of 1974 had nothing to do with the great majority of Greek Cypriots. In fact the coupists killed several 100s of GC resistance fighters and no TC was hurt during their coup until the Turkish invasion had started.
The coupists in Greece came to power with the support of CIA since the Americans were afraid that Greece would join the communist block. Then it was time to bring down what they called the "red monk of the little Mediterranean Cuba" (Makarios), and while doing that why not satisfy the demands of their good ally Turkey in one go?
If the GCs that wanted union with Greece in 68 or 74 were already a minority, today they almost do not exist. Even those that fly the Greek flags, if they had to choose they would not choose Cyprus being a far district of Athens.
On the other hand, the TCs that want partition is as high as ever. And unlike union with Greece, partition has
never been their right, since it involves things like ethnic cleansing and mass human rights violations.
I hope the TCs will one day realize that being a protected 18% minority of a European Cyprus with boosted representation in Cyprus and EU, it is way better than being the 0.1% of Turks with basically no saying for anything important. Thats why an independent and united Cyprus suits the interests of all Cypriots better.
And if we are united, then independence will be even better for us. Not only they will not be able to use their divide and rule tactics to take military bases and other benefits from us, but we will be able to much easier use way more of our resources (e.g. oil) for our own common benefit.