Viewpoint wrote:
It is really related to the upbringing of the child, your sister has not been sucessful in instilling or nurturing the TC"ness in her children. They probably know nothing of their mothers culture or birth place, have they ever been to the TRNC?. I have an uncle married to lady from Turkey and his children consider themselves 75% Turkish Cypriot as their mothers father was also a Turkish Cypriot, and they love the TRNC and the TC people.
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The kids were raised in Turkey, therefore, they took on the identity of Turkey, which is normal in every sense. They do dot have to look else where, to find their origins. The same goes to me and my twin sister. We were born in Cyprus and that remains to be our origin. Over time, she has adopted the identity and customs of Turkey, which is also normal, but she remains a Cypriot, and one cannot change that.
My nephew does come to the "TRNC" on regular basis, to probably gamble and womanize, with his parents money. Oh, he also used his mothers Cypriotness, to pay the "TRNC" "military money" so to get out of doing military service in Turkey. So you see, even my nephew will become a "Cypriot" for a short time, if it serves his interest.
It is not a question of loving the "TRNC" or not. I'm sure they feel, it is part of Turkey now, so they have no problem accepting it and loving it, but would never dare to cross into the RoC, so you see, they do not accept their mothers Cypriotness 100%, since they do not accept all of her country.
For example, you now claim to be a citizen of the "TRNC" first, and roots stemming to Turkey second. How come you don't include the RoC also, the country you were born in, which the RoC was the "last stop" for you before reaching the "TRNC" from Turkey.
Look VP, call yourself what you want. I know where I was born, and what to call myself, no matter how long I have been away from Cyprus, as if that would change anything. I only have one set of "finger prints" on me, and no matter how much I want to wash it of, it will always remain to be "Cypriot finger prints", and I do not need to go and look for further "set of prints" of my historic past, else where.