Erol wrote: This is just not born out by the evidence on these forum MicAtCyp. There are things that TC have and do 'disagree' (hold different opinions on) about. I could post countless examples of this. Would you like me to do so or will you accept that your assertion that we never openly disagree with each onther on this forum is just not correct?
Erol, quite honestly this is my impression, and a sad one may I say. If it will not be much trouble for you, please do point me some examples where a momentary disagreement between TCs continued. It will really be a releif for me to learn that I am wrong.
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Mehmet,
I understand your points.I beleive however that without provocation everybody in the forum will soon fall asleep, and the forum be dead in no time. The more the "kavga" the more people are attracted to join, the more we press each other to tell their true deepest thoughts. I personally beleive the only way to respect the other community is to understand it as deeply as possible. Reconcilliation then comes as a personal feeling, to person undergone that process.
So unless we have this type of "bad" discussions, we cannot have by their side the civilised and documented debates, that are actually the most useful ones.
In this respect I think you can agree with me that Piratis really boosts the hell this forum. I personally admire him for that.
If Kelebek does the same, then good, no problem for me.
I am very glad by the way the number of TC participants seems to be more than the GCs now!
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About this talk about racism:
I don't understand why you accuse each other of racism.
We are all racists!
Racism is a human feeling and exists in each and everyone one of us. You can suppress it by rationality and education. But you can never extinguish it. What civilised nations do is just set the rules so that racism does not harm other people. Even this Federal solution we are trying to find (some want partition) is because we are all racists.
Even if after a solution we re-discover we are not so different, do you have any doubt that we will express all our racism on the settlers who will stay, and the Pontians if they also stay?