insan wrote:For me history is a tool to learn; get the experience of past, broaden my perspective over the issues, improve my ability to understand, improve my ability to see, hear.. etc etc..
Yep, totally agree! I used to think I was doing pretty well in that respect till I joined this forum... Some people in here just amaze me with their knowledge and their open mind.
insan wrote:I don't afraid of facing with the realities and truths. It may give me pain, it doesn't matter. I'm addicted to knowledge. I don't care whether both parties had guilt in any degree or not. All I want to know is under what circumstances for which reasons the things had happened or been done..
With you, again! I'm not saying we shouldn't search. I'm saying we shouldn't talk about it
at this particular time, because the risk of old behaviors coming back is too high a price to pay.
insan wrote:But what you said is true jimmy. Most people don't like to talk about past becuse their past is either full of pains or shames; or both.
My past is neither full of pains, nor shames! I am barely 26. That's not why I prefer to stay off the subject. The reason is that talking can/will not bring any definite conclusions as to what really happened. One will say this and the other will say that, none willing to budge. It's a lost cause, and so it will be until time enough has passed.