Hmmmm...Karma I kinda get what you mean but if you heard someone totally wishing Greek people dead you wouldnt not reply so as not to seem proud to be Greek. That would be the last thing on your mind.
I am proud to be Turkish but not to the extent that I discriminate against others for no reason and I didnt discriminate against her as a Greek person but as a racist. I hate racist people full stop, sorry if I was harsh but when I read things like that it drives me crazy and I cant help but get defensive, specially when its just not called for.
Like I said I can take jokes and it didnt bother me not one bit what Pete said I found it funny myself but from Joannas other posts I KNOW she was not joking in the slightest. Anyways I'll try and grit my teeth next time...