In this thread I saw a side of Shahmaran which gave me plenty of hope.
He is at least prepared to debate the issues,and he doesn't think personal safety is a big issue...
This is a big step because most TCs (as the examples of Zan,VP and Mrfromng shows) are concerned primarily about personal safety. They fear organised massacres of the 60s and 70s to repeat themselves.
You can't do much with people with such pathological fears.Except perhaps to point out that that is not how they live their lives now.
For example we do not lock up our children in heavily armed castles,never let them out of our sight simply becuse we cannot guarantee their physical safety when they are out of the house and mixing with strangers. We don't tell them they will have to make do with the money we give them from our own pockets,and they better get used to the idea they will live and die behing the castle walls because we are too paranoid about letting them have their own lives...This is exactly what the likes of VP would have us do as a community.
My conviction that we have little option as TCs and GCs but to try to put our past behind us and our Cypriotness in front of us,gets stronger with each passing day.We owe it to ourselves to our children and to our homeland to solve our differences by civilised talk and discussion like it is happening in this thread. Give yourselves a pat on the back everyone.