Issy1956 wrote:Pyrpolizer,
My family and I were made refugees in 1963/4 and we driven out of our home by GC's and eventually we left the country. Nevertheless none of us developed into GC haters in any shape or form. I can categorically state that I do not now or have I ever hated GC's as a people and I and most TCs do not see the tragic events of 1974 as revenge.
Some of my oldest and best friends are GC's that I met in London and I regret their loss as much as my own. We often joke with them that I have 10 years seniority on them as refugees.
We all lost our homes and in some ways our futures in the tradegy that is the Cyprus problem. But hey what the hell we all survived and moved on and made lives for ourselves.
The past is country that we can never return to. The notion that any of us will go back is naive and is getting in the way of a sensible settlement. If most GC's are driven by a desire for revenge for 1974 then we truly have no hope.
No Issy it is not revenge that the GCs want.It is simply their rights back. Please treat the word revenge that I wrote before for he TCs as having taken "revenge" in 1974 in that context.
Now about your feelings towards the GCs for having to abandon the Country in 1963: Too many people TCs/GCs were actually looking for a better future abroad those years. So the unstable situation was not really the main reason why they left.It was just an additional reason. Too many TCs actually left because TMT was looking around to kill them after they refused to convert from "resistance fighters" to "plain murderers". I am sure you know these facts better than me. Some of those people left for a better future and never looked back. You are one of them. There are many like you. There were you've gone you found GCs and you discovered you are closer to them than you were with the British. So you actually started been friends. We have hundreds of examples in here like you, look at Miltiades for example.
All you guys are never going to come back and live here. You are actually considered foreigners by your own breed, I know very well how the GCs coming from England are regarded here.They are called "Charlies" or "Johnies". A strange type of foreigners... For you the property issue and many other issues that are important to locals are not important because you live abroad, and do not really expect to have any future here. And even if you finally return you can always go back any time you like.
For us here it is different. All these issues define our own future. There cannot be any solution that will not give each one his rights.For the GCs is their rights on their properties for the TCs is their rights to have a kind of autonomy. Deprive anyone these rights and there is hate and no solution.