GorillaGal, you assume that I am full of hatred and that I am an unhappy man, as usual, wrong on both accounts, whatever line of business you may be in I would suggest you stick to it for you will never make a psychologist, I have never indicated hatred for anyone, I am extremely happy with my life and my family, my only comment to you and I wish you would try to understand, what would a respectable single lady be doing, advancing opinions on such an issue as this?, if you have had experience in the subject, shame on you (in my opinion), if you have not then what in heaven's name do you expect to gain from it ?, my own interest is in condemnation of the practice, I have made that quite clear and have heard quite enough, good-night to you and may God give you sense.