Rude Gal, I feel I need to resond and say that you are right about part of your post we all need to take responsibility for our actions in every aspect of our lives. The second part is just blame blame blame ....... something that happens on this forum often enough by nearly most of us. It changes nothing and has changed nothing in the last 32 years. You will soon get a reply to your post by many who would say that having Turkey invade their country and take a third of it is also illegal and unjust so whilst Turkish Speaking Cypriots are crying out isolation 200,000 Greek Speaking Cypriots remain refugees in their own country. Have you heard this dialogue before???? Probably yes. So instead of concentrating on who is suffering what .... lets all get out of the victimhood we have so well become acustomed too and start thinking of how we are all gonna get out of this shit.
I totally agree with your proposal and whilst we are at it, lets withdraw Turkey's military presence, allow refugees to return to their properties, encourage all schools to teach both the Greek and Turkish language, create a space for all Cypriots to get together and learn from each other, create a bicommunal / bizonal United Cyprus, Varosha comes under the management of the Northern State of the United Cyprus, demilitarise the Island and grant Turkey EU membership.