I never said Turkey was a stable country, my point was in terms of stability it has never been so stable and more so considering the situation in Iraq. I would n't say Turkey owes its existance to the US, but like most of Europe did owe its security during the cold war but I could n't say Turkey would collapse with the absense of the US unless you could give me a concret example how.
I also dont think that a Kurdish state in northern Iraq would much change things for the simple fact that there is an example in Azerbaijan and Iran which has atleast as many Azeris as a percentage of its population as Turkey has Kurds infact Iran has more ethnic groups than Turkey has. Azerbaijan also has oil and gas too and no one is speculating the break up Iran for the simple fact that there is no oil in northern Iran in the same way there is no oil in south eastern Turkey. A Kurdish state in northern Iraq would have enemies in all directions.
The fact of the matter is that everyone knows the chances of Turkey joining the EU are prettymuch slim to non-existant and that what economist and investors have realised is that its the IMF led reforms that is driving the economy and have factored this in. True the Turkish lira was lifted when it started EU negotiations, but the currency was corrected a few months back which was a good thing as it was causing imports to increase and finally the GDP to debt ratio is not bad at 65% which is better than some EU countries such as Italy and Greece. Like I said Turkey is not in bad shape.
I never said you was n't in your right to fight, what I am asking is if it is the best strategy, if this "long game" will ultimately get the Turkish army to leave, send people back to Turkey and finally allow people back to their homes. I personally cant see how this would be accomplished, sure you will annoy Turkey for a while but eventually they wont even notice.
Like I said, you can fight for the sake of fighting, but you either have the choice of a fight that will never end in victory or have most of the Turkish army leave, send most of the people back to Turkey and allow most people back to their homes.
Thats my point of view, give me a senario that would make me think otherwise.