i used to consider it really sick to meet people on the net...
in the end I ended up doing it also through cypriot forums.
not to date, but to come into contact with tcs.
in one case actually (besides meeting in cyprus) we were invided and spend the night at the appartment of a tc who lived at the time in another german city. he invided us wihtout knowing who we are, and we accepted without really knowing who he is. really nice experience