does EU really want turkey in the EU?
The majority of EU
citizens don't. Also the majority of citizens of each country separately don't want Turkey either (in most countries)
In the case of governments, some do (e.g. UK) some don't (e.g. Austria, Germany, France etc), and some appear neutral (obviously they don't want to dissatisfy the Americans).
I would say that the governments that appear neutral are the most, but those that oppose the Turkish accession are more than those that really want Turkey in EU.
I think that Turkey can join the EU only if EU countries will not have a good excuse to reject Turkey.
The occupation of Cyprus, the human rights violations within Turkey, freedom of press etc, are all good reasons to reject Turkey, and Turkey will have to solve those problems if she wants to have a good chance of joining the EU.
Until now Turkey thought the American support would be enough to put them in EU. I hope they now realized that is not the case.