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by **cankertoo** » Tue Oct 03, 2006 3:56 pm

Heloo guys,
As I see from most of the messages on this forum everybody is great with women.
Iam still single and looking for some one to go out with.
Problem is Iam very shy, I dont know how to start talking if Iam attracted to someone.
If I get drunk then I can start talking as Iam not shy anymore, but I dont know what to talk and how to talk.
I dont even know where i can meet some single women.
Guys who are masters here, please help me out to get a girl of my own.
Thanks
cankertoo

by **Svetlana** » Tue Oct 03, 2006 4:25 pm

Hi cankertoo

yes, the Guys here 'talk a good game' but don't they all :-)

Lana

by **cankertoo** » Tue Oct 03, 2006 5:01 pm

i dont know svetlana. but iam talking serious help here. can you help me then?

by **Hazza** » Tue Oct 03, 2006 6:25 pm

Cankertoo, what do you talk about with your male friends? Do you find it easy talking to males? Talking to women is no different. Just be yourself and don't try too hard!

by **VEX8** » Tue Oct 03, 2006 7:55 pm

Ooooohhh Svetlana, harsh. Very harsh.

Don't you know we have some of the worlds greatest lovers here? Legends in their own bathtimes admitedly, but world class none the less.

by **Sotos** » Wed Oct 04, 2006 12:30 am

My advice is to take it slow. There are some guys that are really good with pickup lines and such but if you are not one don't try to be one because you will look stupid. One thing you could do is to get in groups were girls exist and try to make them like you for your intelligence, your humor and your looks, hopefully you have at least one of those features

For example you can take a group course in a subject you are good. There you can show your intelligence without even talking directly to any girl. But be careful not to make it obvious that you are trying to show off. When given a chance you should say a joke but make sure it is a good one! During the first days you will only need to introduce yourself to some girls during a break or something. Soon after you should have some casual chat with some of them about the course and the teacher or something else like you would have with a guy friend of yours. What you do next? You can find out by buying my book. ( Only 5 left in stock--order soon )

by **cankertoo** » Wed Oct 04, 2006 12:35 pm

thanks sotos, but i cannot go to study anymore. iam working now.
i wish i got some girl when i was in college.
i think it is difficult to meet someone when you are out of college.
most of the time women dont want to talk to someone they do not know and i do not want to force myself upon them.
if they say that they are not interested, i just move over.
maybe it is me.

by **ecpersonals** » Wed Oct 04, 2006 5:45 pm

Which city are you in and how old are you?

by **Z-07** » Wed Oct 04, 2006 10:06 pm

The best way to find a girl is to stay natural.
If u behave naturally and the girl is not interested ,it only means that it s not a girl for you!
And if u are strongly interested by a girl, ignore her a bit (don"t stuck on her).
I really think that more you ignore a cypriot girl, more she is interested by you.is it just a feeling or is it the reality!?

Practice a sport! You will meet new people!
Build you a nice body (your confidence will be higher!)!

by **Sotos** » Thu Oct 05, 2006 2:08 am

most of the time women dont want to talk to someone they do not know and i do not want to force myself upon them.
if they say that they are not interested, i just move over.

Your problem is that you are trying to hit on girls that you don't know. You need to get in an environment that will allow you to communicate with girls and make them friends first. This is why I suggested a course. You can take a night course or something. You don't need to be in college to take some courses

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