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[andri_cy]

Ecpersonals are you trying to convince us you are good with the ladies?

[ecpersonals]

No, not at all, i just wanted to give some advice to cankertoo.

[cankertoo]

So Iam back guys. A lot of things have passed.
The girl is finally beginning to take notice of me. There are those occassional glances.
Looks like she has realised my existence.
Iam also returning those glances, but I have not made any attempt to talk to her after the last time.
Just hope that prolonging the talking part will make her more interested in me. Guys tell me if Iam right about this.

[Kikapu]

So Iam back guys. A lot of things have passed.
The girl is finally beginning to take notice of me. There are those occassional glances.
Looks like she has realised my existence.
Iam also returning those glances, but I have not made any attempt to talk to her after the last time.
Just hope that prolonging the talking part will make her more interested in me. Guys tell me if Iam right about this.

Don't let the poor girl starve for your attention Cankertoo.!!! When appropriate, have some small talk with her. Ask her some "leading questions" that will reveal a little bit more about herself. Try and find out if she is involved with someone else already, and if she is not, try to find out what her interests are. If you find something that you both like, and if she is available, you can say, " perhaps we can do that together sometimes" without committing to it, and for her not to fell pressured to commit either. Then go with what ever her answer is.

Take your time with all this, but do not ignore her for too long, or else she will ignore you back.

Good luck.

[G.Man]

When talking to women... best conversation is ask question, listen to answers, and question again..

Dont make it sound like the spanish inquisition, make it sound like you are interested in finding out about her, which of course, you genuinely are...

[Kikapu]

Cankertoo, what's been going on. ??

It's time for an up-date from you. !!

[required]

Oh man. I just saw this post, it's painful to read some of the replies and think what they're doing to your head.

Don't listen to these people,they might want to help you, but they are just as clueless.

I don't want to say more on this forum, but I've sent you a mail on an address you mentioned in another thread( PM doesn't work).
If you didn't get the mail, search for other messages from me, you'll find the way.

[Snad]

And what exactly makes you the expert on women??????

Come on post your expertise on the forum and then we can all hear what exactly you have to recommend you

[BOF]

cankertoo there has been some helpful tips on here especially from kikapu...i will add a few of my own,but i havnt written a book, nor am i a sexual predator but these are personal observations...
this is an anecdote not an idea = a young bull is standing with an old bull looking at a field of cows. The young bull says " lets rush into that field and f***k a cow" the old bull says "no lets walk in and F**k them all.
patience patience patience ...its not a race.
Take the point of view " there is no such thing as an ugly woman" all women are beautiful, some have inner beauty like personality and intelligence others have outer beauty like looks, but you will soon discover that good looking women are not everything.
conversation : use the surroundings or the situation to pass a comment..it does not have to be about her, just something to mention that gets the ball rolling...most people tend to meet others at work or through work. its not a "go there to meet someone situation" so people are a little more relaxed about talking.
Humour is the most important thing ...the ability to make a woman laugh is probably the most important item.. make them laugh - do not laugh at them..be natural... when a woman laughs she feels more at ease, comfortable, and she will enjoy your company.
you may be interested in one woman, but try to talk to many, it will give you more confidence.
and finally be a gentleman.....hold open doors, pull out chairs, be attentive, sympathise and show respect.
Thats it...many will not agree but im speaking as i have found in life, and it has worked for me and im twice your age and once upon a time i too was painfully shy.

[GorillaGal]

bof... that is the most sensable and wonderful post i have seen yet on this board! i applaud you!
i am reminded of a young woman who stayed with me for awhile. she was beautiful. probably one of the most beautiful women i have ever seen. but she couldn't keep a relationship going because none of the men trusted her. and the more i got to know her, the more i got to see how miserable her life was because of her outstanding beauty. and finally i realised how unbeautiful she was on the inside. it was definately an eye opening experience for me. i think every woman wants to be beautiful. it made me realise i am, in my own special way.