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[Kikapu]

dominate and conquer? no, i still don't get that. my life should not revolve around any man. which is probably why i am still single. but at least i am happier than most. i have a life. i do love, and i think about him alot, i do not live my life for him, nor around him. and i think that is important that each of you have your own lives and your own interests. goodness, it would be so boring to spend my life with someone whom i spent every available minute with, whom we shared all the same interests.... nope, that life is not for me.
thanks for the explanation Kikapu, but i will never agree with that dominate and conquer thing. ever.

That is very understandable, and what you write is accurate.

I should have clarified what I was talking about. Since I was referring to Cankertoo, I was talking about early stages in attracting a woman for him, and what he needed to do, by capturing her attention, so that he becomes center stage for her. Of course, this does not last for ever, but you will find, it happens every time, when ever "New Romance" is in the air.

[andri_cy]

dominate and conquer? no, i still don't get that. my life should not revolve around any man. which is probably why i am still single. but at least i am happier than most. i have a life. i do love, and i think about him alot, i do not live my life for him, nor around him. and i think that is important that each of you have your own lives and your own interests. goodness, it would be so boring to spend my life with someone whom i spent every available minute with, whom we shared all the same interests.... nope, that life is not for me.
thanks for the explanation Kikapu, but i will never agree with that dominate and conquer thing. ever.

No one is talking about you giving up your life so that you can follow a man around 24/7, or give up your personal interests and hobbies and what not. I would rather compromise on a lot of things and be with the one I love than be alone and have all my time to myself. I think a lot of women want to be so independent nowadays that they doom themselves to be alone in life. Counting on someone else to lift life's load WITH you sometimes(not for you like women want to think) is great.
In the essence Kikapu described, I would want to be "dominated" and "conquered". I wouldn't have it any other way. Choosing to be alone is either the easy way out, or something you cant help because you are not the one who chose it for yourself.

[MARIKKOU]

dominate and conquer? no, i still don't get that. my life should not revolve around any man. which is probably why i am still single. but at least i am happier than most. i have a life. i do love, and i think about him alot, i do not live my life for him, nor around him. and i think that is important that each of you have your own lives and your own interests. goodness, it would be so boring to spend my life with someone whom i spent every available minute with, whom we shared all the same interests.... nope, that life is not for me.
thanks for the explanation Kikapu, but i will never agree with that dominate and conquer thing. ever.

No one is talking about you giving up your life so that you can follow a man around 24/7, or give up your personal interests and hobbies and what not. I would rather compromise on a lot of things and be with the one I love than be alone and have all my time to myself. I think a lot of women want to be so independent nowadays that they doom themselves to be alone in life. Counting on someone else to lift life's load WITH you sometimes(not for you like women want to think) is great.
In the essence Kikapu described, I would want to be "dominated" and "conquered". I wouldn't have it any other way. Choosing to be alone is either the easy way out, or something you cant help because you are not the one who chose it for yourself.

I know a lot of people who have chosen to live alone. Fair enough choice!

But i always feel that people who are living alone have something wrong somewhere in there personality, if they cannot match up and share a life with the opposite sex.

Do not forget that as of nature we are born solo and we also die solo.

Companionship is really a great experience.

[GorillaGal]

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I know a lot of people who have chosen to live alone. Fair enough choice!

But i always feel that people who are living alone have something wrong somewhere in there personality, if they cannot match up and share a life with the opposite sex.

Do not forget that as of nature we are born solo and we also die solo.

Companionship is really a great experience.[/quote]

Marikkou,
there is nothing wrong with me, and i am single. i do not live alone, though. i have 17 cats and 4 dogs to keep me company.

LOL

(not really, just kidding!)
i just chose to live alone. i like it that way.

[Tito]

Cantertook filemu.

Larnaca roundabout.
Cabaret Las Vegas.

Learning always cost some money.

God luck.

[cankertoo]

GorillGirl, I know you have your views and you are entitled and free to express your thoughts but I started this post for help so I would appreciate it if you could please help me out.(You can perhaps start a new thread to express your views).

Tito, thanks for the suggestion although I want to start a relationship not have a night with some prostitute.

[Kikapu]

Cankertoo,

Since we had not heard from you since your first post, I thought you have gotten married and became a "house husband" already.!!! Have we helped you at all yet, or do you need more advice, or better still for someone who has a sister that they can introduce you to her.

[cankertoo]

No Iam still looking.

I will tell you guys what happened this weekend.

I went to a disco (the place where I was advised not to go) I saw a lot of guys hitting on women old enough to be their mothers.
I was watching what they were doing, I was actually expecting to learn something from them that could come to some help for me when I tried to talk to some girl of my age group and not my mothers age group.

Anyway those guys did not achieve anything and I learnt nothing from them.

So finally I thought enough was enough and I saw there were a group of three girls. One of the girls was dancing and the other two were just standing and looking around.

So I went to one of them and told her "I would like to dance with you", she said "I dont know how to dance"

Then I started drinking again.....

When I think now about what happened, I realise that I should have started talking to her first rather than ask her to dance with me. Who would want to dance with a stranger.

But how do I start a conversation with a stranger? What do I start with. Do I say "Hi Iam Cankertoo 28 years old and single"

[sal]

i read in a mens style magazine (I really read far too many magazines for my own good!!!) this strategy:
initially approach the quieter/less attractive member of a group of girls. the pretty ones get chatted up all the time and if approached directly rebuke the vast majority of the men who chat them up.
then the pretty girl will like you because she's hacked off that you've not chatted her up.

of course it's not very PC but it made me laugh.

x

[cankertoo]

I will keep that in mind, Sal. Thanks for the tip.