It is a natural and human response to resort to verbal abuse when your rights are violated as it is the only way to let out your feelings. You seem to fail to understand this basic human principle and some people in here try to attribute it on racist grounds.
Yes in court you will see the relatives of a raped woman shouting and cursing, while at the same time the relatives of the rapist keep silent ans seemingly polite. Some of the friends of the rapist are so audacious like Mr Bakala who raise a middle finger to the relatives of the raped girl.