Well.............. I will apologise to the rest of the forum for starting this topic. I did it in the hope that it would be seen for what it was by the person it was addressed to. Seems i was wrong. I should have known better!
But I'll thank you anyway Lysi for proving beyond any shadow of a doubt, that it is not I or people like me that have or are the problem. It's YOU as you have ably demostrated.
Thanks to those that did read and understand. For me........ I now couldnt give a toss Lysi. Hope you are satisfied!