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by **MyNextDog** » Thu Aug 31, 2006 5:14 am

There is nothing more heart wrenching than loving / wanting someone who does not want to be wanted.

On the other hand there is no greater emotional experience than your first true love .... not lust ..... actual heart / soul / mind / body love.

by **anastasiaC** » Thu Aug 31, 2006 5:36 am

well its better to have loved and lost then never loved at all.....

by **reportfromcyprus** » Thu Aug 31, 2006 12:41 pm

I read a beautiful line the other day: 'love is the only real enchantment", and I think it's true.

Love enchants people. If you don't feel that enchantment for the other person, though, nothing on earth will change that.

There are also cases when people are really afraid of that enchantment, it makes them feel out of control so they reject it. That's a shame, because I think when it's that strong, it's destiny combined with emotions, which is a huge bond between people.

by **bambina** » Thu Aug 31, 2006 9:03 pm

MyNextDog wrote:There is nothing more heart wrenching than loving / wanting someone who does not want to be wanted.

its so true...
or to see him/her with someone else...

maybe love is chemistry? we love to smell people we love, dont we? :oops:

by **bambina** » Thu Aug 31, 2006 9:12 pm

GorillaGal wrote:ihave never really experienced the love and being loved, or if i did, it was so fleeting, it has all been forgotten. but loving someone is great...even if they don't love you back. it fills your body with great happy hormones. on the other hand, sometimes a guy has said he loved me and it would totally turn me off. most recently this comment came from a man who wanted to move in with me after the 2nd date. he didn't even know my last name, let alone enough about me to know that he loved me, or not.
as for what is love, i think it has different definitions for different situations. i have not had any feelings for person one way or the other, and then one day, might see them in a whole new light... as for the destiny thing, we are all exactly where we are supposed to be at any given moment, and i do not think that anyone totally ever fully understands.....

good luck to you....
good luck to us all.

i dont have any happy hormones when i see a person i love with somebody else and they are both happy...yes yes i am that jelause :roll:

a friend of mine likes to say: i am jealuse of him to everyhting that moves :lol:

i am not sure my translation is correct enough to understand the meaning :oops:

good luck to you too and thanks

by **GorillaGal** » Thu Aug 31, 2006 9:28 pm

ah! i see, you love someone that is with someone else? yes, that is not good at all.... i am so sorry.
i was referring to my last love, whom i still love, when i made that comment about happy hormones....i have never seen him with another woman, but yes, that would hurt me tremendously.
love stinks sometimes.

by **bambina** » Thu Aug 31, 2006 9:41 pm

GorillaGal wrote:ah! i see, you love someone that is with someone else? yes, that is not good at all.... i am so sorry.
i was referring to my last love, whom i still love, when i made that comment about happy hormones....i have never seen him with another woman, but yes, that would hurt me tremendously.
love stinks sometimes.

no no, its not about me, i just imagined

about your last love...you didnt see him with another woman, but dont you think sometimes that he has one? :roll:

or is your philosophy if i dont know something it doesnt exist?

by **rulla** » Thu Aug 31, 2006 10:21 pm

when you first meet someone your atracted to. you like them they like you. then comes sex and lust poeple mistake sex and lust for love atraction between two poeple doesent mean you love eachother.to love someone you have to spend a long time with them go trough things together rough times good times learn what the other person likes and deslikes. theres alot of poeple out there married to the wrong person because of lust so be warned.

by **GorillaGal** » Fri Sep 01, 2006 12:13 am

bambina wrote:
GorillaGal wrote:ah! i see, you love someone that is with someone else? yes, that is not good at all.... i am so sorry.
i was referring to my last love, whom i still love, when i made that comment about happy hormones....i have never seen him with another woman, but yes, that would hurt me tremendously.
love stinks sometimes.

no no, its not about me, i just imagined
about your last love...you didnt see him with another woman, but dont you think sometimes that he has one? or is your philosophy if i dont know something it doesnt exist?

what i don't see, can't hurt me.
i am in New York, my last love moved back home to Cyprus in early July. i don't know if he is dating, but i did see he updated his profile on the dating sight we met on, so i know he is looking. hey, we are thousands of miles apart from each other. he doesn't want me there, and he doesn't want to be here, so it's time to move on. since he left, i have gone on two or three dates with different men, but none of them "do it for me" the way he did. i still love him. and although it probably won't happen, deep down, i kind of hope he will go on a few dates, and realise that there really is no one else like me, and want me to join him, or better yet, for him to return here.
it could happen. "stranger things have happened..."

by **anastasiaC** » Fri Sep 01, 2006 12:44 am

what i don't see, can't hurt me.
i am in New York, my last love moved back home to Cyprus in early July. i don't know if he is dating, but i did see he updated his profile on the dating sight we met on, so i know he is looking. hey, we are thousands of miles apart from each other. he doesn't want me there, and he doesn't want to be here, so it's time to move on. since he left, i have gone on two or three dates with different men, but none of them "do it for me" the way he did. i still love him. and although it probably won't happen, deep down, i kind of hope he will go on a few dates, and realise that there really is no one else like me, and want me to join him, or better yet, for him to return here.
it could happen. "stranger things have happened..."[/quote]

has he contacted you?
I recall u saying he was younger than you - so if he is 35 and still says things like i will only marry a cypriot woman than If I were you I wouldnt waste my time on such a man....but as u said it could happen - I just hope u are open minded and go on dating and enjoying yourself....you will eventually get over him - we all do....

is internet dating popular over there - I know its becoming more popular over here in Australia too - my single girlfriends are right into it - guess it must be hard to go out and meet men - who has the time these days - always strange men in bars/clubs anyway....

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