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Postby TaraT » Mon Aug 21, 2006 10:01 pm

What do you think?

I recently saw a woman I was in grad school with at Heathrow. When we were in school she had a weight problem but now looks fabulous and is absolutely beautiful. She was with a very handsome Italian six years younger than her. When I found out, I thought "that's not right" but then I had to admit that if she were the younger one, I would not have had a second thought.
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Postby Biker » Mon Aug 21, 2006 11:05 pm

I think everyman should have an older girlfriend at some time in his life, between the ages of 21 and 24 I was really into older women, I learnt so much and had a great time*.

I'm always telling my 18yo son to get himself an older woman, preferably a married one.

*When I was 22 I had a fling with a 45yo married woman, I'm now 48 and she (if alive) is now 71, whenever I go back to my hometown I pray I don't ever run into her!
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Postby anastasiaC » Mon Aug 21, 2006 11:21 pm

i think men are just attracted to confident woman and the older u are the more OK u are with yourself........my aunt is married to a man 7yrs younger than her
she says it keeps her feeling young LOL
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Postby andri_cy » Mon Aug 21, 2006 11:29 pm

I dont see the problem here. If he likes her and she likes him its none of our beeswax :D
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Postby Kikapu » Tue Aug 22, 2006 1:08 am

My ex-girlfriend, at age 54, got married to a man age 24 a year ago. They met in Ecuador while she was serving with the Peace Corps. They are now in San Francisco. Talked to her on the phone last night, , and they are doing just fine. I must say, even though she is in great shape, running Marathons all over the USA, there will come a time, that the 30 year age gap will widen ever further, But she's having a good time until then, and she knows what the outcome will be also.
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Postby TaraT » Tue Aug 22, 2006 1:15 am

Thirty years is a great difference and I was silly over my friend's six year gap! I guess it was my own prejudice and my friend is 34 but looks 26 or 27. And he wants to marry her but she doesn't want to marry!
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Re: Younger man/Older woman

Postby bambina » Tue Aug 22, 2006 8:14 pm

TaraT wrote:What do you think?

I recently saw a woman I was in grad school with at Heathrow. When we were in school she had a weight problem but now looks fabulous and is absolutely beautiful. She was with a very handsome Italian six years younger than her. When I found out, I thought "that's not right" but then I had to admit that if she were the younger one, I would not have had a second thought.


this is the reason of her beauty :wink:

:lol:

we are used to see an old man with a young girl next to him but not vice versa ? i hope it never happends with me though :lol: for me perfect match is when a man is 1 year older than a woman is 8)
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Postby andri_cy » Tue Aug 22, 2006 11:28 pm

For me perfect match is when a man is about 5 years older, because they mature so much slower...
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Postby Kikapu » Wed Aug 23, 2006 12:15 am

andri_cy wrote:For me perfect match is when a man is about 5 years older, because they mature so much slower...


I don't know, if that means I'm still maturing or that I have matured too much, in my relationship.!!!
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Postby GorillaGal » Wed Aug 23, 2006 12:25 am

nothing wrong with an older woman with a younger man. almost every guy i ever dated was younger than me. my (ex) husband was about three years younger. the last love of my life (the greek cypriot) was about 12 years younger. it's actually a better match. women hit thier sexual peak after a man does, so it's good in that respect. also, ever look at the life expectancy statistics? women live longer than men. check out the local old folks homes and see what the ratio of men to women is...women outnumber men dramatically.
i agree with Biker on this one...every man should have an older woman for a lover at one time or another....
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