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[Kikapu]

Kikapu - I hope u re-read your posts because you are sounding pathetic right now....you know nothing about the woman and you are asking her if she is immature or if she married a younger man to be her sons playmate??

You have a bad attitude towards woman....and I feel sorry for you.....

I was expecting a response from you, so can't say I'm surprised. If you don't see the problems for this couple in the years ahead, then you're also living in a fantasy land. I hope they will be one of the lucky ones to beat all the odds that are against them, to have a long future together.

[anastasiaC]

Kikapu - I hope u re-read your posts because you are sounding pathetic right now....you know nothing about the woman and you are asking her if she is immature or if she married a younger man to be her sons playmate??

You have a bad attitude towards woman....and I feel sorry for you.....

I was expecting a response from you, so can't say I'm surprised. If you don't see the problems for this couple in the years ahead, then you're also living in a fantasy land. I hope they will be one of the lucky ones to beat all the odds that are against them, to have a long future together.

Oh gee you are so negative!!!
I just dont get what you want from life - what makes You so sure this relationship will bomb out!?!

[GorillaGal]

i like you anastasiaC.
will you be my friend?

[Kikapu]

[Oh gee you are so negative!!!
I just dont get what you want from life - what makes You so sure this relationship will bomb out!?!

Let me put it this way, so that you will understand it better. If the 42 year old woman's 17 year son had been a 17 year old girl instead, the 22 year old husband will be dating the daughter within a year or two, while being married to the mother, until they run away together.

Don't you find it strange, that the men are keeping their mouths shut on this subject, and only the women are striking back on what I have been saying. Perhaps this alone should answer your question as to why I think this "relationship will bomb out".

[dinos]

[Oh gee you are so negative!!!
I just dont get what you want from life - what makes You so sure this relationship will bomb out!?!

Let me put it this way, so that you will understand it better. If the 42 year old woman's 17 year son had been a 17 year old girl instead, the 22 year old husband will be dating the daughter within a year or two, while being married to the mother, until they run away together.

Holy crap - this sounds like West Virginia! Ugh!

[anastasiaC]

[Oh gee you are so negative!!!
I just dont get what you want from life - what makes You so sure this relationship will bomb out!?!

Let me put it this way, so that you will understand it better. If the 42 year old woman's 17 year son had been a 17 year old girl instead, the 22 year old husband will be dating the daughter within a year or two, while being married to the mother, until they run away together.

Don't you find it strange, that the men are keeping their mouths shut on this subject, and only the women are striking back on what I have been saying. Perhaps this alone should answer your question as to why I think this "relationship will bomb out".

is that what you would do??? most probably
not every man thinks like that Kikapu....Im 100% sure of that...

[Kikapu]

[Oh gee you are so negative!!!
I just dont get what you want from life - what makes You so sure this relationship will bomb out!?!

Let me put it this way, so that you will understand it better. If the 42 year old woman's 17 year son had been a 17 year old girl instead, the 22 year old husband will be dating the daughter within a year or two, while being married to the mother, until they run away together.

Don't you find it strange, that the men are keeping their mouths shut on this subject, and only the women are striking back on what I have been saying. Perhaps this alone should answer your question as to why I think this "relationship will bomb out".

is that what you would do??? most probably
not every man thinks like that Kikapu....Im 100% sure of that...

It's funny, how I haven't got any response from the person herself "scowan00", as to how ridiculous I'm about her situation. As a matter of fact, she is looking for shipping company to ship herself back to the UK couple of days ago (see classifieds). Oh gee, I wonder what could the problem really be.??

[Great White]

I am an expert on this issue.... I am dating a lady who will turn 40 in December 2006 and I will turn 39 in April 2007... ask me anything you want to !

Live and let live.... but it is true that the age difference can play a role later in life. It is something one has to consider seriously. As women tend to mature faster than men (who in certain cases never do - like me for instance !), I think that a younger women with a (much) older man can last longer than the other way round.

A big age difference when you're younger (say 22 / 40) is ok but when one reaches 60 and the other is "only" 40 that might be a problem because you live in two different worlds. You physical capacities are not the same anymore. A friend of mine dated his teacher since he was 19. She was 38. After 19 years together they broke-up because she wanted to live a much quieter life and he didn't.

Anastacia, even though I can understand what you're saying, I think you might be somewhat of a dreamer. Odd couples are the exceptions. Not the rule. I don't know whether it's a bad thing but I think it's a fact.

[andri_cy]

[Oh gee you are so negative!!!
I just dont get what you want from life - what makes You so sure this relationship will bomb out!?!

Let me put it this way, so that you will understand it better. If the 42 year old woman's 17 year son had been a 17 year old girl instead, the 22 year old husband will be dating the daughter within a year or two, while being married to the mother, until they run away together.

Don't you find it strange, that the men are keeping their mouths shut on this subject, and only the women are striking back on what I have been saying. Perhaps this alone should answer your question as to why I think this "relationship will bomb out".

is that what you would do??? most probably
not every man thinks like that Kikapu....Im 100% sure of that...

You are right anastacia not all men think like that. Only 99% of them do. Kikapu is right on this one. I know we would like to believe and hope otherwise but it is true.

[andri_cy]

I am an expert on this issue.... I am dating a lady who will turn 40 in December 2006 and I will turn 39 in April 2007... ask me anything you want to !

Live and let live.... but it is true that the age difference can play a role later in life. It is something one has to consider seriously. As women tend to mature faster than men (who in certain cases never do - like me for instance !), I think that a younger women with a (much) older man can last longer than the other way round.

A big age difference when you're younger (say 22 / 40) is ok but when one reaches 60 and the other is "only" 40 that might be a problem because you live in two different worlds. You physical capacities are not the same anymore. A friend of mine dated his teacher since he was 19. She was 38. After 19 years together they broke-up because she wanted to live a much quieter life and he didn't.

Anastacia, even though I can understand what you're saying, I think you might be somewhat of a dreamer. Odd couples are the exceptions. Not the rule. I don't know whether it's a bad thing but I think it's a fact.

LOLyou have like 5 months age difference it doesnt count!