Kikapu wrote:anastasiaC wrote:another strange idea.........
so are u saying I should be with a 56 year old man??
thats my fathers age!! gross man.........
So, that makes you 35 years old. being with a men at 56 is not that bad, if he is in good shape. There's an old saying, "women get old, men get distinguished" with age. But on a serious note, with age, men tend to be in better shape (sex appeal too) than a women at same age. Lets take a 60 year old man and a 60 year old women. The men is able to attract far more younger women to himself, than the women attracting younger man, all things being equal of course. So, actually, my friends formula solves this problem at later age, say when the man is 60, and the women is between 40 and 45, he is still attracted to her, and therefore would not need a reason to wonder off. At 45, she can still attract younger man, but only for a short time, before she ends up being alone. So, a large age difference between a men and a women, can lead to a healthier relationship, later on in their lives. She'll eventually get to have the last laugh though, since he will "kick the bucket" much sooner than her.
Yes thats right!! almost 36.....approaching the gogakari stage... NOT!
I would never have looked at a man my fathers age - that is just not a normal thing for a sane young girl to do ......
Kikapu - I dont understand your mentality at all!!
are looks the only thing important in a relationship for you?? why would a 60yr old man not be attracted to his wife as she gets older - why would a large age difference mean a healthy relationship??
what makes a healthy relationship for you?