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[TaraT]

GG, sounds like a great experience for you. I don't know why women try so hard to be noticed throug material things. Usually the women that are really noticed aren't trying at all. They are naturally sexy and confident and don't need the shoes and handbags to get noticed.

[anastasiaC]

Its all about confidence......most woman feel that way as they get older, they are comfortable with themselves and that shows through
but then there are other women who try to compete with the younger girls and end up looking sad and tacky!

[Hiyar herif]

Well said.A cofident lady is a sexy lady.

[GG]

but then there are other women who try to compete with the younger girls and end up looking sad and tacky!

I hate that, nothing worse than a woman who refuses to get old gracefully.
Well actually there is, on old bald man in a Porsche with the roof down.

[GorillaGal]

but then there are other women who try to compete with the younger girls and end up looking sad and tacky!

I hate that, nothing worse than a woman who refuses to get old gracefully.
Well actually there is, on old bald man in a Porsche with the roof down.

the old bald man in a porsche isn't so bad...until you put a really bad toupee on his head.

[Kikapu]

another strange idea.........

so are u saying I should be with a 56 year old man??
thats my fathers age!! gross man.........

So, that makes you 35 years old. being with a men at 56 is not that bad, if he is in good shape. There's an old saying, "women get old, men get distinguished" with age. But on a serious note, with age, men tend to be in better shape (sex appeal too) than a women at same age. Lets take a 60 year old man and a 60 year old women. The men is able to attract far more younger women to himself, than the women attracting younger man, all things being equal of course. So, actually, my friends formula solves this problem at later age, say when the man is 60, and the women is between 40 and 45, he is still attracted to her, and therefore would not need a reason to wonder off. At 45, she can still attract younger man, but only for a short time, before she ends up being alone. So, a large age difference between a men and a women, can lead to a healthier relationship, later on in their lives. She'll eventually get to have the last laugh though, since he will "kick the bucket" much sooner than her.

[G.Man]

Biologically speaking, in the west, a woman lives 5-6 years longer than a man (average life expectancy from life insurance company actuarial tables) so a 5-6 year older woman is for a lifetime relationship should be pretty good timing...

HOWEVER

Other factors to take into account are things like having children...

Is a younger man prepared mentally for the woman at the right time before her biological clock ticks too far and makes having a baby more dangerous?

There are so many factors in a long term relationship, I lived 7 years with a girl 8 years my senior...

My Estranged wife is 2 years younger than me...

Age has not been a factor in either of those relationships...

[TaraT]

another strange idea.........

so are u saying I should be with a 56 year old man??
thats my fathers age!! gross man.........

So, that makes you 35 years old. being with a men at 56 is not that bad, if he is in good shape. There's an old saying, "women get old, men get distinguished" with age. But on a serious note, with age, men tend to be in better shape (sex appeal too) than a women at same age. Lets take a 60 year old man and a 60 year old women. The men is able to attract far more younger women to himself, than the women attracting younger man, all things being equal of course. So, actually, my friends formula solves this problem at later age, say when the man is 60, and the women is between 40 and 45, he is still attracted to her, and therefore would not need a reason to wonder off. At 45, she can still attract younger man, but only for a short time, before she ends up being alone. So, a large age difference between a men and a women, can lead to a healthier relationship, later on in their lives. She'll eventually get to have the last laugh though, since he will "kick the bucket" much sooner than her.

Oh god Kikapu, just when I start to believe you may be sane you start rambling again. A woman at sixty has probably had children, worked outside the home as well as inside, cared for the children, the house, the husband, and a whole lot more. Of course after all of this the 60 year-old man want something younger. Sixty year-old men are much more likely to be wealthier than younger men too. Doesn't it bother men that younger women may only be with an older man because of money. I think it's revolting.

[Kikapu]

Oh god Kikapu, just when I start to believe you may be sane you start rambling again. A woman at sixty has probably had children, worked outside the home as well as inside, cared for the children, the house, the husband, and a whole lot more. Of course after all of this the 60 year-old man want something younger. Sixty year-old men are much more likely to be wealthier than younger men too. Doesn't it bother men that younger women may only be with an older man because of money. I think it's revolting.

TaraT,

I did not make the rules, they are the reality. Reasons why a woman at 60 is worse of than a man at 60 are not important, when the man goes of with a younger woman. Dare I say, perhaps it's his "sexual blue prints" that urges him to continue spreading his Genes. Why don't you have a go at all the young women who go for these guys. If it's the money, are they prostituting them selves. Are you saying, these women are whores, or are they excercising their sexual right, like you wanted them to have couple of days ago. Remember what you said, it was something like, if man can do it, why can't women, to be free to have sex without being labeled whores. If the old man can pull them, he sure is not going to refuse them, would you ? Yes, most rich man can have more women than not so rich man. We have gone from, survival of the fittest, to the survival of the richest, as far as being able to pursue, persuade, dominate, and conquer women. It's a jungle out there, don't you think.?

[GorillaGal]

and the women who go after the old guys for money, are just as bad as the old guys who go after the younger women because they look nicer.