by unique_earthling » Fri Sep 01, 2006 3:23 pm
i have been accosted 3 times in cyprus, once when i went to episkopi village walking with my dogs, with a camera man in toe, he went off to get the car and i was slowly walking down the hill to the main road, i stopped to look at a new building that had an been built in cypriot style but with a modern facade of stone. An old man of about 65-70 came up to me and i pleasantly said kalimera, he proceeded to tell me he had built this house and often had english people to stay there for holidays, he asked me to have a look inside and proudly showed me around it, i told him i must go as my camera man would wonder where i was. As i went to go to the door he grabbed me roughly and tried to kiss me and grope me.. I yelped in surprise and pushed him away and ran out of the building shocked. When i got to the car, the shock left me and was replaced by anger, i told my Cypriot boss and he just laughed and said perhaps the old mans wife was not interested in sex, so the old man takes the opportunity where ever he can find it... Not a word or even a glimmer of understanding that this was sexual molestation and wrong. And my boss is an educated man too. My friend worked at a leather shop in Kato paphos opposite Pinguino's and the old man constantly touched and groped her, even with his wife in the other room, she eventually told his wife and it was the daughter that came and apologised to my friend and said that it wont happen again. I could go on with stories like this, many women are accosted at work, i was many times inappropriately touched, but now i have learned you just curtly nod to them and even though most english chat and smile and are friendly, unfortunately you dont do that, it makes the men think you are interested in them. I am talking about women alone, if with your husband its usually no problem...