TaraT wrote:Kikapu wrote:I'm coming a little bit late into this conversation, regarding sex and relationships. We need to understand, that sex is natural where relationships may not be.??? Sex is required through out our "animal kingdom", in particularly to those that belong to the "Mammal Species", which we do, for the continuation of the species. The rules are very very simple. Males being larger in size, is meant to dominate the female to pass on his genes, and move on to the next female . The female will accept his genes with no questions asked, because her "sexual blue prints" is to be maternal. I know you will all be saying, "we're not animals, we are civilized and intelligent humans". Yes, that is true, but, with everything a modern human has done to change his existence from the early development of being a primate, we have not changed the basic "blue print" on sexuality with the rest of the animal kingdom.
So, committed relationships and marriages are imposed on us by religion and societal pressures. To achieve this, they needed to control the females "sexual needs" by shaming her, unless she exercised her sexuality in a committed relationship. As our society moves further away from religion, as it has been the case for the last half century or so, young ladies want to exercise their "maternal instincts", that is in their "sexual blue print". Biologically they are doing what's natural, but in the eyes of the "religious society", they are "whores". To be crude, "if she is old enough to bleed, she is old enough to breed". That is the rules of nature, and not mine. Someone once said, " but Ducks have a committed relationship (monogamous) with each other", in which I replied, "well, that's because they don't live long enough to be bored with each other".
So, extra marital affaires, cheating on ones partner will continue, because of our "sexual blue print" that is within us all.
This is always the same lame argument men give to rationalize their cheating and try to dominate women and place the woman in the 'role' that she must be. You think being bigger and physically stronger gives you the right to tell a woman what role she must play and accept your seed without question! Hahahahahaha.
Humans are vastly different than the animal kingdom on which you base your sexual blueprint. Relationships are natural and so is love. We might not be wired to be in the same relationship or in love with the same person always but humans seek out relationships.
I have not met any man who feels that a one night stand is as satisfying as sex with someone they love.
The fact is that men are constantly under the influence of a drug called testosterone. Men CAN control themselves but CHOOSE not to. You make it sound like you are helpless. Hahahahaha. What bullshit.
Oh, TaraT, you have missed the whole damn point. If you're not a feminist, perhaps you would get it if you read it second time around. If you're a feminist, then forget about it, because you will never get it. The whole thing is about liberating women to be free with their sexuality, to be same as the men, and most women are liberated than they were few decades ago. Males of all species has only one roll in the Universe, and that is to make sure, that they can pass on their Genes as much and often as possible, to further their Species. Except of course, the male that mates with the "Black Widow Spider". He only gets one shot at it, and it better be good, because his head will be eaten by the female, soon after they mate, hence the name"Black Widow". It gives a whole new meaning to "Giving Head"!!
I'm not promoting for people to cheat, but damn it, it happens, and not only by the men, as you seem to accuse. If men are having too much sex, there has to be some of you lovely ladies around, to be having sex with. Let me tell you something, to a men who seeks a female that he wants, to him sex with her will be very satisfying, whether is a one night stand or a 5 minute stand. Nature gave the females only enough pleasure to accept the male, but gave a lot more to the male, in order to pass his Genes, to as many females as possible. Of course, today, most males do not want to produce children every time they pass on their Genes, but his "sexual blue print" dictates his actions, and not his common sense.
