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[dms007]

i guess most of you guys don't watch discovery channel.

the male of any species wants to pass on its genes to the next generation, so the male tries to mate with as many females as possible.
but the females are smart too, they do not want to bear the offspring which might have defective genes and which not survive the "survival of the fittest". the female of any species wants to mate with only the fittest male, so there are elaborate mating rituals which the males to prove they are fit.

all these things happen at a subconscious level, the brains and the hormones are working behind the scenes making the match. when you see things from the lowest level possible is it all in the chemicals that are released, and they for one purpose, survival of the species.....

man is no exception. the culture and the society have all made us what we are today, different from animals at first glance, but if you watch the details closely it emerges that we have the same instincts....survival of the species.
it may seem absurd, but we are not doing it consciously. somethings have to be done and the body takes care of it whether you like it or not.

[reportfromcyprus]

Again, this reduces things down releasing genes and bearing children.

Ever thought of why it's so important to continue the human race? What's the point?

I'm not knocking the observation that there are subconscious and conscious mating rituals, that's obvious. But if someone tries to sell me the idea that we're only here to reproduce, I'll have a good laugh at their naivete. There's more to it than that. Each individual gives their lives meaning in different ways, and it's not always about continuing the species

[dms007]

I'll have a good laugh at their naivete. There's more to it than that

there is nothing more than that. surivial is the bottomline, you can laugh as much as you want, but that is what it is all about.

Each individual gives their lives meaning in different ways

that is because of culture.

[GG]

there is nothing more than that. surivial is the bottomline

???? You must have her back to front.!!!

[Natty]

there is nothing more than that. surivial is the bottomline

???? You must have her back to front.!!!

[TaraT]

There are many comments from the men that could be interpreted at misogyny. GG, you referred to older women as "saggy gogagari". There have been comments by some men here that could be interpreted as pretty disrespectful to women.

Ok but lots of what i say is said in comedy value, try not to take me too seriously, the internet probably doesnt carry my jokey character through. If I have caused offence or seemed disrespectful then I apologise. I can officially say I love women. All types, fiery women and placid women. And unlike most Cypriot guys I like a woman who will give me a bit of an argument and stand her ground. I respect that and even welcome it. Whislt my life would probably have been much easier if I were gay I wouldnt change women for the world.

As for the saggy gojagari, its not specific to women, rich business women I see here in London that are single or divorced go for young men, especially as womens sexual peak is in their 30's and mens is in their early 20's they clearly wont go for the saggy old man. Its a 2 way street, my view on that shouldn't be interpreted as misogyny.

You are right. The internet does not carry over intent or attitude. Poor Kikapu probably thinks I'm out to get him. The smileys only help a little but only go so far. It probably doesn't come across this way, but I do not take myself too seriously or this debate abouting cheating/unfaithfulness. I rather live life than dwell on things that won't change during my lifetime.

[Kikapu]

Dearest Kikapu,

Please please tell me where you obtained the now infamous 'sexual blueprint'.

Love, Tara

Dearest Tara,

The "Sexual Blueprint" that you're asking about is my creation. However, there is a "Blueprint on Life" which involves how males and females are "wired up" to play their roles in our existence and the survival of the Species. I have just took the portion out of the "Blueprint on Life" which is the "males sexual blueprint" to explain as to why males sexual desires are far greater than females, and how he goes about spreading his Genes. This I believe is one of the main driving force in a man, as to why he cheats, because of his intense sexual desires, because he is "wired" that way.

Let me wrap this up in few words for you. You can take the MAN out of the "Animal Kingdoms Jungle" into Modern World but you cannot take the "Animal Kingdoms Male sexuality" out of the Modern MAN. He may be a Modern Man, but his "Sexual Blueprint" belong in the "Animal Kingdom" along with all the other beasts.

Love Kikapu.

[reportfromcyprus]

Disagree with you Kikapu on the sexual desire part.

Men do not have a greater sexual desire than women, they have a shorter attention span

Ever heard of the sexual frenzy of the Dionysian cult? No man would have wanted to be around when those ladies got going, they'd have been ripped apart.

[Kikapu]

Any given day, men can't help but look at a good looking woman with nice body and sex appeal. Within a few seconds, she will get a complete "cat scan" from top to bottom, and back to top again, with sexual thoughts dominating his mind. This will happen dozens times a day, and it doesn't matter if the wife or the girl friend is with him or not. It only takes few seconds, but he will do it. It is his "male sexual genetic blue print", and there's no escaping it. But man will also have sex on the mind, even if there're no women around to look at. They have their memories, some with the women they are with now, and some with their past experiences. It's a small wonder, how men can get anything done, when preoccupied by his "sexual blue print" that dictates his sexuality.

Oh please...I cat scan guys 24/7 . I dont think looking is cheating. I dont even think fantasizing about it is cheating. I believe cheating is when you actually go ahead and do it-that is if your partner disapproves. I dont think men are the only ones with sex on their minds. (And, ladies, lets be real now and admit that if a man is cheating most probably he is cheating with an OTHER woman so we cant be only judging men.) Once a while back I used to have this guy I worked closely with that I found attractive. I would never of course sleep with him as I am married, but I felt so bad, that I told my husband. He laughed at me... . The point is, I dont believe men or women have less or more temptations than the other. I dont even think at this point that they react to temptations differently. I think that sometimes women are unfair to men about that. I know more guys that were burnt by a woman than the other way around.

Andri_cy, do you ever sleep, if you're "Cat Scanning" 24/7 ??!!!! The above is not about cheating, it's about males appetite for women and sex.

I know you're a mother and a wive, but I would like to know from you, if you're willing to do it, and if you don't, that's fine also, whether you can tell us from your view or lets just say from women's view in general, just what do you get out of "Cat Scanning" a male, and what does that do to you. What are your thoughts during "Cat Scanning". Any information, intimate or not will be very useful to know, so that I can compare it with men's views.

[Kikapu]

Disagree with you Kikapu on the sexual desire part.

Men do not have a greater sexual desire than women, they have a shorter attention span

Ever heard of the sexual frenzy of the Dionysian cult? No man would have wanted to be around when those ladies got going, they'd have been ripped apart.

OK, lets find out. In your experience, what are the percentages of a man initiating sexual intercourse versus a woman. I would tend to bet, it is 90%-10% in the mans favour. I'm being a little generous to the womans 10%, but never mind.