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[Kikapu]

Kikapu , unlike you I have a passion for food ,.

Miltiades,

You meant to say , "Kikapu, like you, I also have a passion for food", because I do.!!

[GG]

I found a wife who was open minded and adventurous, but I went through a lot of women trying to find her, and now it seems I have to start looking again...

Again? You need 2?

[andri_cy]

do we really need to have extra marital affairs for it to be good sex??
sorry bu I just dont agree with that..........

Sex with danger is always attractive whether it be sex in public places or whether it be sex with married people or sex with people of different race or colour. I think when/if I ever get married I will do my best to keep it as 'interesting' as possible.

Ah but ths is where the problem lies...

Its only later on you find out if your wife is willing to do the same experiments with you...

If not where do you go from there? Same old same old? I regarded myself as very lucky that I found a wife who was open minded and adventurous, but I went through a lot of women trying to find her, and now it seems I have to start looking again...

If she is so cool why the need to start looking. stay where you are.

[Kikapu]

According to your world view, Kikapu, women should look upon themselves as breeding cows and men as the bull studs that pursue, persuade...and conquer etc in order to release their genes.

How do you propose that we switch off other needs, like security, family, love, affection and so on?

This view reduces sex even further below the level of a handshake and reduces humans to a walking set of genes that's ready to reproduce at any given moment.

Is this our destiny? To have the finer emotions and feel pain when we are cheated on, and yet be of no more use than a biological imperative? Once used up, easily discarded? What an irony.

It's amazing how often young men refer to woman as a "COW" in the UK, when ever they attack a female. I guess they think, if you have breast and milk, you must be a "COW". Now to answer your question. The modern man does not act like a "Stud Bull", but he sure wants to. He wants to be just like a "Stud Bull" so that he can go and spread his Genes to as many "COWS" as possible. He is only interested in achieving one thing with the cow, and that is to pass on his Genes. He has no concern, what physical or emotional needs the cow needs to make her part of the sex. As soon as he is finished, he is out of there, searching for the next cow. A modern man just pretends to want to satisfy the woman, because he thinks that is what is expected of him, but he really doesn't care whether she is satisfied or not as long as he is. Nature did not give the females the same level of satisfaction needed, as it gave the male. The male, just from his performance as designed by his "sexual blue prints", will be satisfied so much during delivering his Genes, that he will want to do it again and again and again. Modern man does what he needs to do with a modern woman, so in order for him to be permitted to mate again at another time. The "Stud Bull" does not have those problems with the "Cows"

The modern man is forced to live in the modern world, so there's no chance losing the family, security and the affection that you need in your relationship. The modern man is here to stay, but if he had the choice, I believe he would want to be that "Stud Bull" when it comes to mating.

[GG]

I really get the feeling men are hated on this forum.

[TaraT]

I really get the feeling men are hated on this forum.

I certainly do not hate men. Sometimes I wish I did.

Women here could say the same about being hated. Women here defending their point of view and taking up for their gender does not translate into hatred for men. There are many comments from the men that could be interpreted at misogyny. GG, you referred to older women as "saggy gogagari". There have been comments by some men here that could be interpreted as pretty disrespectful to women.

[anastasiaC]

I really get the feeling men are hated on this forum.

I certainly do not hate men. Sometimes I wish I did.

Women here could say the same about being hated. Women here defending their point of view and taking up for their gender does not translate into hatred for men. There are many comments from the men that could be interpreted at misogyny. GG, you referred to older women as "saggy gogagari". There have been comments by some men here that could be interpreted as pretty disrespectful to women.

Totaly agree Tara!
we dont hate men but some comments leave me agasp!! very disrespectful, narrowminded and quite backward and some of the men here sound like real whiners......LOL

[TaraT]

Dearest Kikapu,

Please please tell me where you obtained the now infamous 'sexual blueprint'.

Love, Tara

[GG]

There are many comments from the men that could be interpreted at misogyny. GG, you referred to older women as "saggy gogagari". There have been comments by some men here that could be interpreted as pretty disrespectful to women.

Ok but lots of what i say is said in comedy value, try not to take me too seriously, the internet probably doesnt carry my jokey character through. If I have caused offence or seemed disrespectful then I apologise. I can officially say I love women. All types, fiery women and placid women. And unlike most Cypriot guys I like a woman who will give me a bit of an argument and stand her ground. I respect that and even welcome it. Whislt my life would probably have been much easier if I were gay I wouldnt change women for the world.

As for the saggy gojagari, its not specific to women, rich business women I see here in London that are single or divorced go for young men, especially as womens sexual peak is in their 30's and mens is in their early 20's they clearly wont go for the saggy old man. Its a 2 way street, my view on that shouldn't be interpreted as misogyny.

[anastasiaC]

Dearest Kikapu,

Please please tell me where you obtained the now infamous 'sexual blueprint'.

Love, Tara

but Tara dont you know???
its reality darlink..........thats life! (according to Kikapu)