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[TaraT]

Where are you Kikapu? Cyprus?

[Filitsa]

My girl friend is in Budapest until tomorrow night. I wont be up this late again after she returns.

Feeling the need to answer your own question and justify why you're still up at this time, Kikapu?

[TaraT]

Once he finds the female that attracts him to her (almost all women ), then he needs to plan his moves. He needs to pursue, persuade, dominate and then conquer her, otherwise she will never feel she was really wanted by the Male, unless he goes through these steps.

You forgot "control," Kikapu ... "conquer then control ..."

I'm not a control freak like most men are from our part of the world. I know some men who do control their women. What's the point in doing that. I can assure you, that is not love, and I don't know why a woman stays with an idiot like that.

Okay, now I am very happy to know that it's not just me. When I went to school in the US, I met my first Greek Cypriot. We had one date and one of the first questions he asked me was if I liked kids and he wanted to tell me what wine to order and how slowly I should sip it. Later, we went to a club and he kept challenging me to outdrink him. He called for a second date and would not take no for an answer. There is no way that he could have thought we had anything in common.

[Kikapu]

Where are you Kikapu? Cyprus?

No, I'm in Switzerland. The land of green hills, lakes and rivers. I left Cyprus in 1964, and never returned. But I'm still a Cypriot .!!

[Kikapu]

My girl friend is in Budapest until tomorrow night. I wont be up this late again after she returns.

Feeling the need to answer your own question and justify why you're still up at this time, Kikapu?

Well, as long as I was home alone, I thought perhaps so were you ladies. But I'm off to bed right now.

[TaraT]

Maybe you can tell me. Why would that guy challenge me to out drink him? I never had any guy do that before. It's left be baffled ever since.

[GG]

Maybe you can tell me. Why would that guy challenge me to out drink him? I never had any guy do that before. It's left be baffled ever since.

Maybe a show of strength? Like a masculine display symbolising his virility? Greek men can do some strange things sometimes. To show he is 'real' man.

[TaraT]

I thought he was trying to get me drunk. And he called for a second date, I finally had to say yes to get him off the phone. Then I called his voice mail and canceled the second date. I'm not proud of it but I just could not believe he thought we had anything in common.

[Kikapu]

Maybe you can tell me. Why would that guy challenge me to out drink him? I never had any guy do that before. It's left be baffled ever since.

Perhaps, he wanted to do something that he can beat you in. I'm sure next contest would have been "arm wrestling". He wanted to prove he was a man. Perhaps he was intimidated by you for some reason. He was going to prove to you, anything he could think of, that he was better than you.

[Kikapu]

GG,

Just read your post. I think we're on the same wavelength regarding TaraT's date.