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[miltiades]

Kikapu you are a sex expert , tell me , how come ? Have to admit sex is an area that I find exceedingly stimulating if only I could remember why .

[Kikapu]

I am happy that you have been brave enough to post that as most women will hate you for it and think that you making 'excuses' for cheaters. I am glad that you are fair.[/color]

GG,

I don't think anyone goes into a committed relationship with plans to cheat on each other anytime soon. But, strange things develope between couples, and at some point, and not always, one starts to cheat, mainly the male. He needs the space and freedom to roam the pasture to find someone different. It does not mean, that he no longer loves the woman he is with now, but that is a little comfort for her when she finds out, and find out she will. Same goes for the female of course.

I think, we can all say that, most men have cheated, and more than once. It actually requires good deal of skills, in order to cheat. But once it is mastered, it will become a habit for some. The reason why Bill Clinton was not impeached and thrown out of office, was because 80% of the country did not find his "cheating" a good enough reason to throw him out of office, except for all the hypocrite Republicans. Did that mean, the other 80% did not want to be hypocrites.??!!! Those that cheat, will lose their relationship, one way or the other. They will become the biggest liars there is. But they will still cheat, because of their "male sexual blue prints".

[Kikapu]

Kikapu you are a sex expert , tell me , how come ? Have to admit sex is an area that I find exceedingly stimulating if only I could remember why .

No Miltiades, I'm not a "sex expert". I have a passion for two things in life. One is good food, and the other is women. A lot of men like women, love women, but they are not passionate about women. I'm not the romantic type, and those who are, mostly fake it, just to please a woman. She will in turn, reward him for his troubles, maybe. But, when you're passionate about women, you will jumps hoops to get them into bed. It is a drive within yourself, that wants her at almost all cost. In some ways, it's the "primitive nature" in me that wants her. Anyway, we all had our "good old days" some point in our lives, and I had my share of women, mixed with high dose of passion, that produced a lot of "fireworks".

[andri_cy]

Any given day, men can't help but look at a good looking woman with nice body and sex appeal. Within a few seconds, she will get a complete "cat scan" from top to bottom, and back to top again, with sexual thoughts dominating his mind. This will happen dozens times a day, and it doesn't matter if the wife or the girl friend is with him or not. It only takes few seconds, but he will do it. It is his "male sexual genetic blue print", and there's no escaping it. But man will also have sex on the mind, even if there're no women around to look at. They have their memories, some with the women they are with now, and some with their past experiences. It's a small wonder, how men can get anything done, when preoccupied by his "sexual blue print" that dictates his sexuality.

Oh please...I cat scan guys 24/7 . I dont think looking is cheating. I dont even think fantasizing about it is cheating. I believe cheating is when you actually go ahead and do it-that is if your partner disapproves. I dont think men are the only ones with sex on their minds. (And, ladies, lets be real now and admit that if a man is cheating most probably he is cheating with an OTHER woman so we cant be only judging men.) Once a while back I used to have this guy I worked closely with that I found attractive. I would never of course sleep with him as I am married, but I felt so bad, that I told my husband. He laughed at me... . The point is, I dont believe men or women have less or more temptations than the other. I dont even think at this point that they react to temptations differently. I think that sometimes women are unfair to men about that. I know more guys that were burnt by a woman than the other way around.

[TaraT]

Kikapu, you just can't get away from this sexual blueprint thing can you?

Men cheat, women cheat, it all happens and it all hurts. The guys will have to correct me if I am wrong but I think that, on the whole, men are more hurt by women because they are more careful about becoming involved. There are exceptions of course but men do not open their hearts easily and once they do it's a very big deal. Women open up and give more easily and may be hurt more often but perhaps not hurt as deeply and I think women mend more easily because they are more willing to open up again after being hurt.

[anastasiaC]

To all you single young ladies out there who are looking for a man who is genuine, honest, and who has a handle on his manhood (I mean that figuratively, not literally): GG and Kikapu are the ones! Get your claws into them before someone else does!

please tell me u are being sarcastic!!

they are the types of guys I would avoid!

hang out for Mr Right girls - he does exist....dont listen to them!

[Filitsa]

Once he finds the female that attracts him to her (almost all women ), then he needs to plan his moves. He needs to pursue, persuade, dominate and then conquer her, otherwise she will never feel she was really wanted by the Male, unless he goes through these steps.

You forgot "control," Kikapu ... "conquer then control ..."

[Filitsa]

please tell me u are being sarcastic!!

they are the types of guys I would avoid!

hang out for Mr Right girls - he does exist....dont listen to them!

Ou, ou, ou, please take no offense, but I can tell the idealistic youngins of the forum from the seasoned oldies-but-goodies and the ones in between teetering on the brink of reality. Anastasia kori, Kikapu and GG are not disingenuous, a rare comodity to come by these days!

[TaraT]

To all you single young ladies out there who are looking for a man who is genuine, honest, and who has a handle on his manhood (I mean that figuratively, not literally): GG and Kikapu are the ones! Get your claws into them before someone else does!

please tell me u are being sarcastic!!

they are the types of guys I would avoid!

hang out for Mr Right girls - he does exist....dont listen to them!

I'm with Anastasia on GG. Have you read some of his other posts. Totally preoccupied with what's in his trousers.

I'll reserve judgement on Kikapu. He has quite a few very intelligent posts. Except for the sexual blueprint ones

[anastasiaC]

Tara - at least his sexual blueprint ideas (whatever!) gives me a good laugh with my morning coffee...