Marz I sympathise with your father I wish I had a magic wand to return his house but I dont, at least his house is still standing my mothers house which was perfectly sound was knocked down and is now an empty plot of land so shes doesnt even want to go and see it now she wants to remember how it was in the past, she is only left with her memories and it wasnt the Turkish army that removed the only link she had with the south. There are similar even more tragic stories from both sides what happened happened but we cant turn the clock back thats history. The sad things is neither side has learned anything we are still unable to envisage a united Cyprus where we would first feel safe, a part of and control over our destiny.
I advise your father to apply to the compensation board newly formed in the north and I hope he gets good compensation if not then he shoudl go to the ECHR and stake his claim for fair compensation.
If you feel you have the strength to take the whole island then feel free to do so but be prepared for all out war where both sides will lose many lives like 1974 after which you are still crying, we will not just sit back and surrender we to will fight back with everything we have this is human nature. War is not the solution but if you feel you can catch Turkey a nation of nearly 80million at a moment of weakness then you are really deluding yourselves, if you play with fire you are sure to get burnt. The only way you will defeat Turkey is politcally and through direct negotiations.
You have to convince the TCs that their future is with GCs and not Turkey, you have to get them on your side which they are obviously not, if you are unable to do this and instead wait for a weakened Turkey to strike and kill innocent people then you are after vengence and not reconcilaiton and unification.