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[anastasiaC]

in general Id say No - even my cousins hubby came onto me
I was devastated!!!!
only because I thought they had a solid secure marriage and I looked upto them as a couple
that sure went out the window fast..........

I recently heard one of the guys I dated in Cyprus has now divorced - didnt suprise me at all........

[andri_cy]

I would say that after I have been in a lot of places and lived in several countries, men being unfaithful is common place everywhere. I do think though that Cypriot men are a bit worse, mainly because, up until a few years ago, Cypriot women would take their cheating behavior without saying too much.

[anastasiaC]

do u think so Andri?? I dont think the cypriot women would take it - they are pretty fiery and strong minded
and maybe thats why the divorce rate is so high these days.....its all very sad

[G.Man]

I think women of the world might wanna look at why their men stray...

[sal]

oh yeah and why's that?

[reportfromcyprus]

They stray because they like being utterly predictable and boring, they're creatures of habit.

One guy I dated (briefly) asked me to marry him, and I looked at him in total disbelief. I told him that he was a divorce lawyer's wet dream, but he didn't get it.

Kicked him to the curb, where he belongs, and where he's no doubt still straying.

[andri_cy]

do u think so Andri?? I dont think the cypriot women would take it - they are pretty fiery and strong minded
and maybe thats why the divorce rate is so high these days.....its all very sad

Yes but I would say women my mom's age would 've been too afraid about what people would say to end their marriage and they would bite the bullet and shut up. The younger generation is thankfully coming out of that.

[anastasiaC]

I think women of the world might wanna look at why their men stray...

oh please! and that is not a predictable comment?? blame the women....
not all men stray mate...

[miltiades]

I'm a Cypriot man , been with my woman 43 years , I swear to God ! Only been with one woman in my life . Well maybe 2 or 3 but before I met her when I was just 17 , you know what I mean and the way.........
Seriously now , I think Cypriot men of my generation were the most faithful husbands in the world , we never gambled either nor did we smoke or get high on drink , and we helped with the housework , change nappies , did the ironing and much more. They dont make them like us any more !

[G.Man]

I think women of the world might wanna look at why their men stray...

oh please! and that is not a predictable comment?? blame the women....
not all men stray mate...

LOL

I didnt blame the women, perhaps a bit of paranoia?

Men are not inherently monogomistic, but likewise why is it that so many women let themselves go after they are married?

Why do they feel they dont have to make the effort anymore?

Not all women are like this, sure, some marry assholes... but i would like nothing more than to feel loved by the woman I married and for her to make the effort not to put on 30kg's in weight and slob about in sweat pants...

Yeah not all men stray, and not all of those that do get caught...

Some of them are serial cheaters... if they got at home what they wanted...