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[NeverSayGoodbye]

I think its in the genes some people are monogamous and some are polygamous.

[reportfromcyprus]

That sounds logical and a good observation.

What about environment though? If someone's naturally monogamous and is then influenced by their friends to have a 'harmless' night of fun out with the boys where one thing leads to another?

There are men who like to feel that their friends are cheating on their girlfriends the same way they are, so that they can share the guilt

[Kikapu]

I think its in the genes some people are monogamous and some are polygamous.

To most men, Monogamy is some kind of WOOD.!!!

[reportfromcyprus]

good one Kikapu

[sal]

Guys see the patern here all women are requesting how they want a man to be, and how they have to understand the womens needs in a man.
its funny how women dont want to understand want a man needs in a relationship, its always about them.

So, come on then Marz (and men) don't feel left out, darling. What do you want in a relationship?

And by relationship I mean an 'exclusive' relationship where there's no wandering!

x

[Natty]

Yes, I'd love to know the answer to that question myself.......

[NeverSayGoodbye]

End of the day we want the same things you want and thats to be happy.

[reportfromcyprus]

Maybe different things make men and women happy, and that's one of the problems.

If they would make it a priority to make each other happy, it goes a long way towards a good relationship.

[unique_earthling]

i think you have to communicate what each other needs, and work towards fulfilling those needs, if each persons needs are fulfillled, then a person would have no need to go elsewhere.

[unique_earthling]

but the irony is... you have to know yourself well, to know what you really need and not just want..