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[unique_earthling]

yup sounds about right..

[GG]

You gotta stop having penis envy and hating cypriot guys.

We do not have it as easy as you think, we are supposed to marry cypriot women and are expected to be able to pay to maintain the lifestyle that they girl had when daddy was paying. The women are extremeley aggressive and indecisive and generally blame any insecurities on the guy.

[simonwjones]

A question for you Sal. Why do you want to know what Cypriot men are like? Are you looking for one?

[sal]

Ok here goes!

I met a Cypriot man who has really made maximum effort (well, for the first 3 and half months) texting me constantly, calling ALL the time (over 30 times in 24 hours as I hadn't answered the phone once which I found a little disconcerting but flattering all the same I guess), acting really romantic, begging me to go over to be with him etc. I was very sceptical and kept him at arms length as I didn't believe him at first (I mean I thought how can you miss someone so much when you've only met them 4 times etc) but after 3 months of this constant contact you think maybe he is for real and you can trust him a little and you start to let him in a little more. Hmm. I don't know.

Then these last 2 weeks I've noticed total changes in him. The ego is there. He's conceited. I think he just loves the chase and once he thinks he has you - PUFF he's off you and keeping you there for his ego! He's probably onto the next chase. Like a game. He's still calling but he's changed his attitude totally. Strange he would be prepared to spend all that money and time on texting and calling 24:7 when as soon as you start to reciprocate he seems to change so dramatically. Why would he bother spending the time/money when he could just go after someone else in Cyprus? Sound familiar?

I'm confused! Anyway, I thought that a little insight into the psyche of the Cypriot male would help me understand. I think I'm going to hoof him off anyway but I just wanted to understand his actions!

x

[unique_earthling]

does that sound balanced to you?

[sal]

haha now I've just written it down in black and white - in a word - no!
x

[GG]

If Cypriot men are so bad, which men do you like?

[sal]

So it's not that he's Cypriot - maybe it's because he's mentally unstable...? Is this more likely or is this normal?

[andri_cy]

So do you think Cypriot mothers dote on their sons more than their daughters? Are they brought up to be so egotistical as their mothers gave them high superiority and spoilt them - whereas the daughters are in the kitchen helping out?
x

Since I am the daughter and my brother is the son, I will have to say YES.

[unique_earthling]

I am not saying they are bad, but that they do not make good life companions. I like my men to be emotionally intelligent, someone who is willing to learn about himself and is not egotistical or have low self esteem.. A reasonable communicator, home loving and who is able to care about others and animals. Someone who realises that its not all about how much money they make but about giving themselves to their partner and children, gentle, supportive and liking and sharing similar activities, a commonality, similarity in intellect. I like someone who takes an interest in the home, enjoys DIY, walks and nature. Not a gambler or someone that gets bored or has a desire for cabarets or other cheap thrills. equal partners in all things...