by unique_earthling » Thu Aug 03, 2006 9:36 pm
No Natty its nice to hear your self searching and you dont offend me in fact very little does, i dont take anything personally, no one has that power to make me feel bad....... i dont know if you understand that concept, but i sometimes maybe dont put myself across very well, and leave out a lot of things that make me more understood as you feel when you speak from the heart.
Its all good the bad the good and the down right crazy... i dont believe you need a church to find your way, its within everyone to find the truth, and basically the truth is to be the best one can be, to reach ones potential, and sometimes we have to get rid of our conditioning to find the person we were meant to be, without the added imput of families issues and countries issues and our own..
if you were left on a desert island and were allowed to grow without any conditioning other than one supportive and loving individual who didnt impose dogma or any other belief system other than lovingly showing us how to love, how to think for ourselves, how to take personal responsibility for our thoughts feelings and actions, helping us understand that how we think, is how we will act, and that we could change our thoughts, because they were our own invention and those around us, especially significant others.
And told us that our fears were unfounded, and only stop us from achieving greatness, that our doubts were our enemy. And informed us that we were an incredible creation, and loved us for who we were and not for who they wanted us to be... parents, society, schools, religion who taught moulded you and added their own insecurities, teaching us through guilt and duty, threatening to with hold their love if we didnt conform to their idea of being right.
Acting out their hurt because we had let THEM down, instead of allowing us to find our own way, telling us that they know best, when in fact it was because of their own fears and doubts and conditioning, they parented how they were parented... never understanding that it was their own ignorance and couldnt look at the bigger picture because they had no experience.
So who would you all be Now!!