And the military is run by politicians...
Not in Turkey.
All land should be restored to its rightful owners, or they should be compensated to an agreeable amount at todays values...
Elections should be held with proportional representation in the govt with policies that affect either genus, tc or gc, requiring a large if not 100% agreement from all govt representatives to pass..
As for the native turkish settlers, that is a difficult one, as if turkey enters the EU they will have a right to stay!
Turkey should make a formal apology for the invasion and deaths, like germany did for the holocaust (unlikely, but would go someway to burying the hatchet).
I cant come up with a complete solution, but I will air my thoughts rather than apportion blame..
Those thoughts are good. We all have them. But when rational thoughts are shot down by some because they would accept nothing less than partition (and no solution = partition again, so they don't mind that either) and they refuse to change their altitude for 32 years then what you do?