"You can not in my view fight or counter ideas like Greek or Turkish nationalism with 'force' and 'suppression'. You can only try to counter them with (superior) ideas. Any attempt to do otherwise is doomed to fail. Unity requires consent. Without consent there can be no unity (and here I agree with Piratis I think) and any 'enforcement' of unity is not actually unity but is in fact totalitarism"
If we accept a reunification package through a referenda, then we are consenting to unity.
However if we are not fully committed to the new state once it has been formed and we are still emotionally singing along to the Greek and Turkish national anthems with tears rolling down our cheeks, then that unity will never be given a chance to happen. It will become unity only in the theoretical sense, only on paper.
A state requires a leader (not a civil libertarian) who promotes that state and its multi-ethnic, bilingual character by using a little assertiveness if that is what it takes to get the message across. Educate people as Cypriots not as Greeks and Turks.
If we have new president who calls himself Greek, and cannot speak a word of Turkish, (or the other way round) because its his personal choice, how can he claim represent Cyprus as state abroad. Imagine a president of a sovereign state, refusing to call himself a citizen of that state!
We can fight Greek and Turkish nationalism with superior ideas. I disagree. Its a great idea in theory but not in practice. Cyprus needs a strong pan-cyprian leader with the right leadership skills. Maybe I m cynical, but Greek and Turkish Cypriots seem to be insecure in how they define themselves, partly because we have never had a pan-Cyprian leader, no pan-cyprian movement and outside elements have taken and still take full advantage of this.
If I was living a united federal Cyprus, and there was some tension brewing up between Greek and Turkish nationalists and my president tried to combat these dangerous and divisive forces of Greek and Turkish nationalism by thinking up "superior ideas" or by sitting down and trying to talk to the nationalists then I would leave the country out of fear. Its not suppression to guard the unity of the state, its what the people expect the state to do.
If we look at the Belgian model, actually the Belgian model is the best model to look at because Belgium is the only bi-ethnic federation in the EU, an organization that Cyprus is a member of. We can draw valuable lessons from Belgium, for example how it functions as state, but also how Belgium deals with parties that promote new ideas that threaten the states territorial integrity. Belgium is regarded as a liberal democracy but it has shown time and time again that it will not hesitate to close any political party down that promotes separatism or contrary ideas that threaten the existence of the Belgian state. There is nothing wrong with a state defending her territorial integrity. (I dont include the RoC in the 1960s as in my view this is a defacto G/C state, the enemy was within)
Even in the UK, changes are being made to the law to give newcomers citizenship lessons and to have them read an oath to the Britain before being naturalized. It appears the UK is following the US example. And we all know that the US is a very patriotic country. "God bless America...."
I am not asking anybody who calls themselves a Greek or Turkish Cypriot to change their nationality, rather I am referring to the people in Cyprus who believe they are more Greek than the Greeks of Athens and more Turkish than the Turks of Ankara.
The idea of being a "Cypriot" is something that will not just come naturally it needs a little push here and there. Other bi or multi-ethnic federations had to use force to at times to get the message across.