NeverSayGoodbye wrote:Viewpoint wrote:We are the masters at blaiming everyone else but oourselves. Why arent we solving our problems out now? what excuses do we have today in 2006 the English or the Turtles or maybe the weather. We are kidding ourselves by thinking both sides want a solution they are both paying lip service to this never ending story which is set to drag on for a few more years as if it was solved how would MPs get elected.
Do you believe that if G/C and T/C sat alone on the negotiating table without the U.k ,U.S,Turkey and Greece we will find a solution?
Its when these countries put first their interests instead of the people of Cyprus is when things get complicated.
So there is actually some grain of truth in blaming everybody else.
We have been unable to show those attributes in the past and therefore have to accept manipulation by larger powers, this is our own inability so why o we blame everyone else when we allow other nations to use us for their own gains.
If our leaders had one brain cell between them that worked they would soon realize that direct and sincere talks are the only to solve anything. If the GCs do not win over the TCs I have no hope of a solution. You may say this is rather one sided but in reality the TCs have to see a better opportunity to grab the bull by the horns if the GCs continue with their current attitude they will only drive Tcs further away and firmly into the lap of Turkey. Never under estimate TCs if they want something they will fight for it but unfortunately there is nothing the GC are offering they want. I will give an example during the run up to the referendum and as our technical committees met with GC counterparts the Turks in authority were made very uncomfortable because the TCs were moving closer to the GCs in the hope of creating a united Cyprus. This is what the GCs should encourage a gradual understanding that they are an important part of Cyprus and that in a united Cyprus they have nothing to worry about GCs will share and not dominate. This element is important to so many TCs, its not the land or the fact that settlers are here, it all boils down to controlling ones own destiny, if this is not available and GCs continue to pursue goals that will ensure their numerical majority rules then we are doomed to more of the same...that is what we have today, if theres nothing better on offer for tomorrow then no one will want it.