Brother, in general I agree with you. If all Cypriots were like you then the Cyprus problem would have never existed.
Unfortunately, while most Greek Cypriots got over the idea: "We are Greeks and we want union with Greece", most Turkish Cypriots didn't get over the idea: "We are separate nation and we want taksim".
We are either one nation, or we are not. If we are, then all citizens should be equal among each other. Each one should have equal voting power, equal responsibilities, and equal rights. This of course does not exclude measures to safeguard the uniqueness of TCs.
But if what we are going to have is an association between two almost independent states, then what good is that for us?
If some parts of "my" country are not really mine, then why should the money I pay for taxes go there?? Why should those "others" have the power to block every decision the great majority wants to take?
If the want to be "others" then fine, let them keep 18% of land as their population is, and thats it.
What I am saying is that a disguised partition like the Annan plan is worst than a "regular" partition. I would rather live in a smaller country, rather than a bigger, undemocratic banana republic that can collapse at any time.