by Niki » Sat May 13, 2006 5:38 pm
The muscles separate to allow the tummy to stretch which is why muscle tone is more difficult to achieve after having a baby - unfortunately there are always exceptions who make everybody else feel inadequate. The muscular structure changes - there's nothing you can do about this.
This is one of the things that women generally have to accept and realise that having this wonderful baby makes these things trivial in comparison so not to get too hung up about it.
Womens bodies take at least 15 months to recover (although it will never be the same as before) so she may not be doing herself any favours by worrying about it too much.
My kids are older and my tummy is pretty much back to what it was but it takes a while.
If all else fails there's always tummy tuck or lipo!!