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[Debbie]

Sorry to disappoint you on all accounts.

Andreas is somewhat older than I -- by almost a decade --- older men are so much more intriguing.
I am also just a fit and trim now as I was at 20 ---- 5'5" & 110 pounds

So no matter which way ---- with or without clothing --- will still be the same treat Andreas had years ago.

[Sotos]

Don't worry Debbie, they are just teasing you. But may I ask how come and you remembered this guy after all these years?

[Debbie]

Believe me I don't worry too often about too much -- I went into this method of search fully realizing that there would be some "off the wall" responses. I have been thinking of him all through the years, not just now, however recently though I gave a piece of advise to someone on following their heart when they were torn as to which love to pursue --- something I neglected to do many years ago --- foolish foolish me.

So now I can only hope that life has been generous and kind to him and finds him happy and well.

[Sotos]

If you find him and he is already married will you try to take him back?

[Debbie]

That choice is his to make.

[Sotos]

What if he had kids already? You wouldn't mind if he leaves his kids for you?

[Debbie]

I don't want to take him away from a happy life. If his choice is not have a friendship with me than so be it. If a friendship is all he can offer -- better yet. If he has children and is unahppy in his marriage and has been considering a leaving the relationship then it all becomes his call again -- if your question really is would I accept his children --- definitely. Do I want him to give up his children for me --- no he should not have to nor would it be fair of me to even make such a stupid request.

[complexity]

Greetings Debbie,

I read the posts on this thread and due to similar expiriences I would like to ask you a question if I may.

Upon your finding , what will be your reaction ? What will be the expected reaction by this gentleman? What could be the outcome?

I do not know your current status in terms of age , life expirience and moral but in simple terms the following could happen:

a) You could find a happily married man with a wife and children. This man could be confused by your presence and caus problems with his family. Most of us have been through one person in life which we cannot forget no matter what or who we are with in the future. This is why human nature provides us with the ability to keep good memories till our last breathe and possibly beyond.

b) He could be single , thinking the same way you do.. and you both live a moment or a lifetime together..

I would bet "a" due to 2 personal expiriences. In one case it almost evented into breaking up a family and believe me i DID NOT do anything out of the standard limits - I even tried to keep away.


Therefore I simply lay down the laws of general moral which let us judge on a situation with 4 eyes and 2 thoughts instead of 2 to 1 respectively.


Thanks for listening,
Complexity.

[complexity]

A little tip...in addition to what I already said.

If you do want to find him... the only way to really do it... is "social engineering". Search on that and you will see how easy it is to find him.


;) Mario

[dms007]

someone started a topic about fidelity.....and most of the time the women blamed the men..
the reason why there are many extra martial relationships is because of women like debbie, who dont even think twice when it comes to ruining another woman's life.