Here we see 2 extremes:
Extreme 1: The one of GreekCypriotGurl_UK, were all TCs are evil and are directly associated with the actions of the Turkish army.
Extreme 2: That GCs are the evil and TCs went to the north to be saved from the evil GCs and the Turkish occupation is justified since the evil GCs should be punished and should stay separated from the TC angels.
Non of these is of course true. The truth is that both TCs and GCs are the same kind of human beings and non of them is evil or angelic.
In the case of 1974 the truth is that Turkey invaded for its own strategic reasons, and TCs, that up until then had been brainwashed with the partition dream (like GCs were for enosis) went to the north to realize their dream without giving a damn about GCs. GCs would have probably done the same if they could realize their own dream.
(now I am talking about the majorities. Most definitely minorities within both groups are much more considerable than that)
However it is never too late. It is time for all Cypriots to understand that gaining something on the loss of the other group will never happen. It will be either a loss-loss or a win-win. Any gains on the loss of another will be only temporary until the next phase of the circle of blood.
The only way to reach win-win for all Cypriots is to finally end this racist discrimination and separation and to have one common body of equal Cypriot citizens, free to speak the language they want, their religion etc. This should be the aim and the solution should lead to this result (after the necessary transitional periods of course)
Only in this way common interests will be created and Cypriots will finally progress to the level they deserve. Of course some outsiders still have many interests into having Cypriots split into 2 and this is the biggest obstacle for achieving true unity.