And furthermore nobody is telling you to forget the past, but to forgive the past because past as the name implies is done by the past generations. It is as simple as that. If you are saying that you can not forgive the past, then this means you will keep on grooming hatred in yourself and in your future generations, which simply will make our ideal life of living together in this world becomes unattainable.
What past?? The occupation is present, not past at all.
When it will become past, then you should tell me to forgive that past.
You are entitled to your opinion about Turkey and EU. I believe the opposite. And if in the future I will be able to influence the decision (e.g. with my vote) I would support that Turkey should stay out of the EU.