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Postby Maria28 » Sat Apr 01, 2006 3:24 pm

Hello forumers I am back in action ;)

This is my new question:

Have you ever cheated your (ex)boyfriend/(ex)girlfriend or (ex)wife/(ex)husband? If yes why?

What do you think cheating is? Is kissing somebody else in the lips cheating?

Flirting with somebody else?

Thinking of somebody else?
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Postby bakala » Sat Apr 01, 2006 7:15 pm

Maria

My wife and i were married when she was 18 and i was 20 that was 37 years ago, ive never looked at another woman since i married
Marriage is founded on trust without it there can’t be a real marriage

The betrayal of that trust is the one and only unforgivable act that could separate my wife and me and that will never happen as far as I am concerned
So yes I do believe in fidelity and I believe in keeping the promise I made 37 years ago

maybe in todays world values have changed but even just kissing someone else on the lips is cheating as far as i am concerned
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Postby Hazza » Sun Apr 02, 2006 9:18 am

Welcome back Maria.

I define cheating as getting physically involved with somebody. Having been on the recieving end many years back, hurting like hell when you find out, I can proudly say I have never ever cheated on a spouse, nor will I. I know I sound very sure of myself on that, but thats because I am. As Bakala said, marriage is based on trust.
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Postby Mikros » Sun Apr 02, 2006 7:49 pm

Have you ever cheated your (ex)boyfriend/(ex)girlfriend or (ex)wife/(ex)husband? If yes why? Nope, but an ex-girlfd cheated me....

What do you think cheating is? Is kissing somebody else in the lips cheating? Indeed

Flirting with somebody else? Yes

Thinking of somebody else? Yes

Talking to somebody else is one thing, flirting is another thing Maria... A relationship/marriage is about trust, devotion and love... if it exists
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Postby dms007 » Mon Apr 03, 2006 9:14 am

why does maria ask questions like these all the time?

where do you get ideas to ask questions like this? you must be one lonely depressed woman...... :lol:

i have not cheated anyone and no one has cheated me (or atleast that's what i think!!)
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Postby twinkle » Mon Apr 03, 2006 10:50 am

Window shopping is fine...just don't try the clothes on..... :)
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Postby bakala » Mon Apr 03, 2006 12:13 pm

Thought you might like this one

the ring of fire was a circle of burning logs or oil
the ring of iron would have been in early days swords tip to tip, later a length of chain
the two people would sit within the rings for the ritual
the bride would pour water from one jug to another during the ritual
the oath is taken by the groom and repeated by the bride
The ritual required only a tree and a rock as witnesses
very similar rituals are recorded all over the world



Pagan Wedding Ritual, Predates Christianity by 2000 years



At the feet of the rock and the tree
Within two circles
A circle of Bright Fire
A circle of unbroken iron
To the sound of running water an oath is taken
To love you for all of your life
And to love no other for all of mine
Each time we see a rock or tree
Or hear the sound of running water
They will whisper our pledge anew
To love, only, each other for all of our days



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Postby Maria28 » Tue Apr 04, 2006 1:39 pm

What do you think cheating is? Is kissing somebody else in the lips cheating? Indeed

Flirting with somebody else? Yes

Thinking of somebody else? Yes


How about the following. Are they cheating or not:

Be crazy about a celebrity of the opposite sex?

Masturbation?

Watching erotic films?

yes or no?
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Postby Mikros » Tue Apr 04, 2006 5:12 pm

Maria what are you trying to find out??? :)

Be crazy about a celebrity of the opposite sex? No cheating

Masturbation? Are you nuts? No! This is a natural habit of all normal people in the world!

Watching erotic films? No cheating as they can be watched together!

yes or no?
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Postby stuff » Tue Apr 04, 2006 8:29 pm

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