That's exactly what I was told by an undesirable mainland Turk. I was eating at a soup restaurant in Kyrenia last week and the waiter was a Nigerian student. He asked about my origin and I explained I was a Turkish speaking Cypriot. He explained he had been in Cyprus for just over a year and I was the 2nd TC he had met.
I enlightened him a bit about our history and added that we were a minority when the island was united and we are now again a minority with the arrival of mainland Turks. He asked if I would consider repatriating and I told him not unless the mainland undesirables were removed and a lasting and peaceful resolution was reached.
All this conversation was overheard by the chap sitting behind me who turned out to be a mainland Turk. He obviously understood most of what was discussed and joined the conversation in a civil manner. He wasn't upset about my remarks and wasn't aggressive. He did however, make it quite clear that north Cyprus was now considered to be a part of Turkey and the TC's will in time seize to exist and if I thought after the bloodshed Turkey gave for this cause the TC's will be left alone to re-unite with GC's we were very much mistaken.
I know you will look at my thread title and say north doesn't belong to TC's but there may be a day you may wish that was the case instead of mainland Turks claiming it. I personally think it would serve the GC's well to get on as well as they can with TC's. Stop attacking them at every opportunity when they visit the RoC. Stop attacking and damaging cars and busses at every opportunity. Stop showing so much hatred towards your distant cousins.
You have only one chance of saving the island and that is with the support and co-operation of the TC's.