Lets get this out of the way first
Londonrake wrote:You keep saying I’m missing your point. Has it occurred it might be down to you?
I say I think you have missed my point when I think you have missed my point. Who's fault that may be is to me an irrelevant non question. It could be mine, it could be yours most likely it is a combination of the two but none of that is of any interest to me. All that is of interest to me is to properly understand what you are saying and to have what I am saying properly understood. I will put in as much time and effort to that end as necessary. Identifying when I am being misunderstood is just the first stage in the process, nothing more and nothing less. It is not an accusation. It is not about blame or fault as far as I am concerned.
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Londonrake wrote:I can’t see how Remainers could be classified as racists or being clones
From what you have written above I think I have got closer to the source of misunderstanding. You seem to me to think I am saying 'if you do not like being called racist when you are not simply because you vote to leave the EU and regardless of anything and everything else you have said or done, then do not call others racist simply because they voted to remain and regardless of anything and everything else they have said or done.'
This is NOT what I am saying.
What I am saying is
Labelling a person who voted leave as racist for no other reason than how they voted and regardless of anything and everything they say is an
example of a
type of behaviour. It is a type of behaviour that is in the same class as labelling someone who voted remain as therefore being determined to thwart the result being implemented for no other reason than how they voted and regardless of anything and everything they say. It is not the 'thing' - racism - undemocratic - stupid etc etc that is the commonality here. It is the defining of an individual, of who they are and what they believe (their identity) on the basis of a singular thing, in this case how they voted in a referendum, regardless of all else, that is the problem. Doing this to label those who voted leave racist is wrong and problematic. Doing this to label those who voted remain undemocratic is equally wrong and problematic. For exactly the same reasons.
I personally do not and have not ever labelled an individual, or groups, racist simple because of how they voted in the referendum. I make a conscious effort not only to avoid doing this but also to explicitly state I do not believe this is the case. The reason why I make such efforts to not do this is because I know I do not like it when the same type of behaviour is used against me.
When you imply that I label someone as racist for no other reason than how they voted in the referendum, as you did with your 'come on you knew I was a BNP voter' comment, you are just labelling me as someone who does that for no other reason that how I voted in the referendum. You are doing the very thing to me that you complain is done to you and that I personally do not do and make conscious effort not to do. That is my point. You being called racist just because you voted leave is upsetting to you because you are not racist. Me being called the sort of person who calls others racist simply because of how they voted is upsetting to me because I do not call others racist simply because of how they voted. I do not do the former. Have never done it. Have made effort to not do it. You however it seems to me do do the later. A lot.
Londonrake wrote:Personally, I think it’s perfectly reasonable to highlight that those who seek to overturn the referendum by any means are rank hypocrites in claiming to be respecters of democracy because, despite all the myriad of obfuscating excuses, they’re clearly anything but.
There is nothing wrong in seeking to "highlight that those who seek to overturn the referendum by any means are rank hypocrites in claiming to be respecters of democracy because, despite all the myriad of obfuscating excuses, they’re clearly anything but." What is wrong is to decide that someone, anyone, everyone who voted remain is 'seek[ing] to overturn the referendum by any means'. It is no different from deciding that someone, anyone, everyone who voted leave is racist, or stupid, or a little Englander or any other pejorative. Just because some of those who voted leave are racist it does not mean all those who voted leave are racist. The logic and concept is fundamentally flawed. Just because some of those who voted remain seek to overturn the result by any means it does not mean all those who voted leave are seeking to overturn the result by any means. The logic and concept is fundamentally flawed.
The referendum was on if we should leave or stay. The majority result was to leave. You can not leave somewhere or some current status without going somewhere else or moving to some different status. I believe that just as the decision as to if we leave or stay should be decided democratically then so too should the place we go to in order to leave should also be decided democratically. That some may use such an argument with the motive of seeking to overturn the result does not mean everyone who uses it must also therefore be seeking to overturn the result. Any more than because some who voted leave are racist means all those who voted leave must be racist.