Londonrake wrote: No disrespect but I think that perfectly illustrates why it’s mostly a nugatory effort talking to you about this.
I have no idea why you chose to engage in discussions like these. I do however know exactly why I chose to do so. It is nothing to do with convincing other people. For me it is all about me. For me it is a means by which I can better understand , challenge, refine, review what I think and why I think it. If I believe something I want to know why I believe it and if I am wrong I want to know I am wrong and why I am wrong. The process of 'arguing' with others in places like this is simply a means by which I can do these things. So you may see no point or value in such discussion, whilst continuing to engage in them and whilst also saying you see no point in doing so. Things are much simpler for me. If such discussions lead me to better understand why I believe what I do, to realise that I was wrong about something, basically to understand better, then that to me is 'value'.
Londonrake wrote:In what I believe was the largest electoral event in the UK’s history, where the question posed was binary and completely straightforward, preceded by a 6 month campaign, the vote was to leave the EU by a FPTP majority of over a million. That’s the largest mandate any British government has ever been given.
To me this kind of lazy 'over egging of the pudding' makes me 'angry' to a degree, though 'sad' and 'depressed' might be better summations of my feelings. Expressions like 'Largest electoral event in the UK's history' sound impressive but if you are to compare apples with apples , in its history, in over 500 years of parliamentary history, the UK has held UK wide referendums a total of 3 times, ever. Being the 'largest of three' is not quite as dramatic as 'Largest in history'. Then you have 'largest mandate any British government has ever been given' - again if you want to compare like with like, then it's 'out of three'. Even then the claim is less than blandly honest in my opinion. The majority for staying in the EEC in 1975 referendum was not 1 million. It was not 5 million. It was in fact just shy of 9 million. Is a net result of just under 9 million people not a 'larger mandate' than a net result of 1.2 million people ? "2nd largest mandate , out of three" does not sound quite so dramatic as "largest mandate in history" does it ? What adds to my anger and frustration with such partisan, lazy and emotional characterisations is that in any case it just does not matter any way. You won. That is all that really matters in terms of how the system works. I have little to no doubt that you have the intellectual capability to have worked all this out for yourself, to be able to understand how dubious the claim of 'largest mandate in history' actually is. Yet still you repeat and regurgitate this widespread 'meme' none the less, or that is how it appears to me.
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Londonrake wrote:Three years later, after just about every devious trick in the book has been used to thwart that result, we are no closer to leaving today than on 24th June 2016.
I understand your frustration and anger about the use of 'dirty tricks'. However what undermines my belief in the sincerity of your anger at such things is that your criticism of them appears so one sided and partial. Can you honestly say that during the campaign and after, significant elements of the leave campaign groups themselves did not use 'dirty tricks' in order to try and win the vote and then having won it to try and get a specific form of Brexit over any other kind ? So I am left with the impression that you dislike dirty tricks when they play a part in stopping you getting what you want but are at best indifferent to them when they play a part in you getting what you want and at worst you actively seek to deny such dirty tricks even exist.
Londonrake wrote:I don’t really know what you feel you have to be angry about (well, apart from losing of course)
Am I not allowed, as someone who voted to remain, to be 'angry' that the UK is in a mess, paralysed, divided and tearing itself apart and has been in this state for three years and with no end in sight ? Am I not allowed to be angry that the reason why the referendum that has caused all of this was called at a time that was the worst in terms of national interest was down to narrow 'party' interest ? You think I can not be as angry as you at the failure of our politicians and political system to bring this to some sort of conclusion, whatever that conclusion might be. or even move forward, just because I voted to remain in 2016 ? On a more personal level can I not be angry that the effects on me, directly and personally of this whole thing to date has been that for the last three years I have been able to buy around 15% less stuff with each pound of my sterling income I have that I spend in either Euros or TL ? I say again, do you think those who voted leave have a monopoly on 'righteous anger' ?
Londonrake wrote:but that certainly pisses me off.
I get your anger. I understand it. I do not deny it or the 'righteousness' of it. Can you not afford me the same ? Why do you believe that only your anger is 'righteous' ? I, as someone who voted to remain, accept and acknowledge that should we end up not leaving there would be much 'wrongness' in that, much danger and risk and threat to the very fabric of our democratic systems and structures in the UK. I acknowledge and accept this I do not deny it. Nor do I deny that should we end up leaving via a no deal forced through by 'dirty tricks' from a minority government without any regard for what the will of the people truly is for that kind of exit, then the same things also apply and to a very similar degree. We are in a shit position with danger all around.
If some omnipotent being said to me you can reverse time and reality and can chose between a scenario where by May's deal went through parliament and we left on the 29th March, or staying in the position we are in right now complete with a chance of brexit no happening at all, I would chose the former. Not because I think May's deal is exit in name only, it is not and not in any sense that matters to me personally (for example if it is brexit in name only would I still retain my right to live and work anywhere in 28 nation states without any restriction or hindrance). Nor is it my personal 'preferred' form of exit from a spectrum of such possible forms. I would chose it because any 'democratically valid result' would imo be better than where we are right now. I want us to get out of this mess, to find a way forward that does not fracture and divide society and threaten our democratic structures and systems way more than I want us to 'remain'. I do not see, to give just one example, how the kind of 'over egging' of the pudding claims like 'largest democratic mandate in history' can or will ever help us get of the mess we are in.
Londonrake wrote:Did you get the bit about “a day of reckoning ”?
Do you disagree that had it been 52/48 for staying then it would have been game over?
My take on this, what I think I have 'learnt' or 'understood' from the whole thing is that we as a country historically fucked up and fucked up bad in terms of our relationship to and membership of the EU. That for years, decades there were people with valid and rational concerns about our membership of the EU and the way the EU was evolving, with the consent of our governments but without the explicit consent of the people, and that they were 'marginalised' and ignored and their voices not heard. In hindsight I think we should have listened better and acted in response to such concerns and not ignore them. We should have put in place laws that explicitly said there can be no change in the status of the UK position in the EU in terms of sovereignty without explicit consent of the people via referenda, like Ireland has. That if we had done this then the chances that we would have ended up where we are right now in the way we ended up here would have massively reduced. As such my personal position had the result been 52/48 the other way would absolutely not have been 'job done, nothing to do on the issue now, we have shut up the leavers for another 40 years'. I would, in such a scenario, be arguing that whilst remain may have narrowly won, we should not and must not ignore that fact that 16 million people voted the other way. That we should listen to their concerns, we should look at ways of addressing them (like with a law requiring direct consent of the people for any future change in status). You may not believe I am sincere when I say this but really I do not care what you believe about my sincerity in this regard.
I think one of the elements, one of the 'dynamics' of this whole process and why it has been and remains so polarised and bitter and divisive is linked to the reality of what we did wrong leading up to it. That there is an element, conscious or otherwise, of 'revenge'. Of a view that 'we were ignored and marginalised and not listened to, now the tables are turned let's see how you like it'. I understand such emotion, the 'righteousness' of it, the 'humanness' of it. I also acknowledge the hypocrisy of what I am about to say as well, given that historically I was on the 'side' of those doing the 'ignoring'. I think we have to try and acknowledge these dynamics, within ourselves first and foremost and try our best, despite the righteousness of such feeling, to not let them alone lead and drive us because doing so will not help us find a way out of this mess. I think we all have a 'duty' here to try and not let such emotions dominate but to focus on how we get out this mess with the least damage, to society and our democratic systems, as we can. Again I acknowledge all this is 'easy to say' when for the previous 40 years I was not on the side that was being ignored and marginalised and that I am only saying it now because the tables have turned and the inherent hypocrisy in that and yet I still think it is true.
Londonrake wrote:Given the relative positions, do you think anything is served by this interminable circle of ultimately pointless discussion? Except to make you feel a bit better that is.
So we come round full circle and go back to the start of this post again. I have no idea why you chose to engage in such discussions whilst saying you see no point in them. For me the very process of trying to take notions and ideas that are in my head and 'verbalise' them in a way I hope is understandable to others has value to me in that it helps me better understand what I believe and why I believe and to evolve and change that hopefully improve that understanding.
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