Sotos wrote:Yes, marriage doesn't mean as much to a lot of people as it use to but the Church doesn't change this one way or another. Religious people will get married in a Church and are told that their marriage is a contract with the God that shouldn't be broken (or something along those lines) but they will still divorce anyway. But I agree with your last statement which is along the lines of what I said earlier about some people having a need for religion.
Yeh it does. The Church changes a lot of things. I don't know if you're a Dad or not, but I actually think the Church is important, very important. I will explain why.
Firstly, I have been exposed to religion all my life. I went through the Catholic Private Education system for both Primary and Secondary school and early on I was exposed to it in quite a big way. I was even taught by Nuns in primary School back in the day, and ol boy they were pretty tough and strict.
It resulted in me actually valuing the Private Education Sector because of the things I was taught growing up in that system.
So now that I am a Dad. I decided to give my children the same as I got. They will be going to private schools that are religiously based - the denomination I exposed them too Orthodoxy, but they will then be going to an Anglican one after that.
Why do I think the Church is important? Well, I want my children to grow up with the Orthodox kids, and have Orthodox friends, and get married to an Orthodox Christian one day. I will go into a meltdown if they bought someone else into the house. My head would explode.
I want them to hang out with good proper Christian kids and to be raised in that doctrine so that they can stay off the streets, stay away from drugs and any other vices that could take them down the wrong road.
Also, by growing up in such an environment, they will learn good proper virtues and when they are older they will value and work hard on their relationships with others and their marriage. A religious person is a lot less likely to throw their marriage in the bin than a secular person is.
That is my thinking. Of course it doesn't always work out so, but generally speaking, the statistics favor the believers.