Robin Hood wrote:You conveniently forget all the 'advice' you were dishing out before that, about all the people that had contacted you by PM and wanted you to join them to sort me out! Like that P*** who was in contact with you and knew '.... where I lived' do you remember those 'threats' or is that just a lapse in your memory.
I forget nothing. This is typical of your mythology and self-justification. I openly told you that because of your abrasive manner two people had contacted me (knowing as those on here will of our adversity) with a view to "paying you a visit". The truth. I also said that I had told both of them to get a life. (did you get the "It's a chat forum FFS. Not the centre of the universe"?). You have laughingly turned this into my threatening to pay you a visit with two friends in order to do you and your wife violence, whilst trashing your property. Total and absolute rubbish and treated by all as such.
You forget the fact that I complained several times to admin/owner over several weeks when you openly ramped up the rhetoric on an open forum and really started digging into your 'hatred' files going back years. I asked him by PM to have a word with you about your continually picking me out as your selected target. He did warn you but it made no difference. Then when I got pissed off and returned the 'advice' you ran to admin snivelling to get me banned. When you start throwing shit at others don't be surprised if eventually they turn on you and sling shit back.
Was your complaining "running to Admin"? I received no warning from anybody. Your perception, as always, is wrong. The incident started (you have invariably been the instigator of all the really unpleasant confrontations between us) with your telling another member that I was a liar and you would PM him the details (Mouse). I then opted for getting the whole incident out into the open. When the forum owner deleted the whole fiasco you lost the plot and sent me a blatant threat of violence which I passed on, verbatim to Admin. That's not "snivelling" it was common sense. You went way beyond the bounds of acceptable behaviour and were quite rightly suspended for it. You didn't "send shit back" you totally freaked out and - as always - took the whole thing off forum. Every time you've done that it has caused you grief. Keep things on forum!
You proudly say how you offered to buy my wife and I a drink a few months ago and I politely turned you down. But of course you don't mention that when we first met face-to-face I invited you and your wife to come to our home and join us for a dinner one evening with our mutual friend and his wife ...... and you turned me down flat. Not even a thank you for asking, you blamed your wife as not being into meeting strangers, I seem to remember! Typical .... you blame someone else.
I offered to buy yourself and wife a drink at my club Xmas party because you both sat in a corner and were ignored. That was wrong. Pride had no part in it. Your posting that on this forum as some sort of righteous rebuttal was despicable. Your much earlier invitation to dinner at your place was politely refused because at the time we were still hammer and tongs, as now and also because unlike you I tell my wife absolutely nothing about my forum activities. She would have wondered, quite rightly, WTF was going on. As it turned out I was right. Your abrasive manner on forums with anyone who just happens to disagree with you has led to nothing but acrimony. A meal wasn't going to change that. I told you several times that our relationship online and in the real world were incompatible and one had to go. You disagreed. Ultimately, I was right.
So cut the Holier than thou crap ..... you are a nasty piece of work when anyone crosses swords with you, spiteful and vindictive with a long, long memory .... letting bygones be bygones is not in your repertoire.
You could have settled it all with a simple apology, which would have been gratefully accepted and resulted in a fresh start. You didn't and like when you are wrong in here just chose to ignore it. In anger, you deliberately wound somebody up and pointed him in my direction in order to "get back" for my trouncing you on a forum. Subsequently, you claimed it was a joke gone wrong. You even blamed the two of us. Him for overreacting and myself for lying. Apparently none of it was your fault. People here can't see the big picture. Whilst they perceive you and I as enemies they don't appreciate that I am just one of quite a few who have trodden the same path. You even lost the other forum a long-serving member and sponsor. A man who was so incensed at your obnoxious manner that he looked into taking legal action against you. If you want to see a nasty piece of work you might want to look at some of your many confrontations with people and think about that. As it happens, in your famous mail you blew your claims of innocence out of the water by threatening to wind the same poor guy up again over a trivial issue.That's the sort of thing you do - from behind a keyboard.
The humorous bit is that the 'threat' you perceived was all perfectly legal and legitimate and not physical at all ....... I'll give you a clue ..... don't drink and drive ...... you know what I mean?
The threat was blatant and clear. If you think what you sent me was "legitimate" you are delusional. Suffice to say it has been accepted by everyone who has read it as a threat of violence against me and it has gotten you suspended from a forum where the Admin is noted for his fairness and tolerance. When it comes to "drinks and drives" in your earlier post - despite the fact it had absolutely nothing to do with the subject being discussed - you felt the need to add that. Total and typical spite.
If you want to discuss any topic we have a mutual interest in, I am happy to do so respectfully ..... treat me reasonably and without the sarcasm and ridicule, and I will respond in the same manner, but I won't be bullied by the likes of you!
I have always treated people the way they treat me. Some of your ideas invite ridicule. Your complete inability to acknowledge another point of view as having validity or to admit when you're in error deserves sarcasm.
BTW: Just watching President Vladimir Putin's inauguration celebrations in Moscow on Planeta TV (Pity I don't speak Russian but my wife understands it, although not proficiently enough to translate Putin's speech into English )......... I do so love the Russian National Anthem ........ and what a spectacular but low key display display. You don't know what your missing!
I have little time for somebody who takes up the cause - absolutely any cause - against his own country with literally any nation, no matter how odious, that would do it harm, merely to appease feelings of bitterness and anger about their past lives. You can hide on this forum and get away with that but if you were a Cypriot espousing similar views about your country you would have been out on your ear a long time ago.
You are not - and never have been - a "victim".