GG wrote:sal wrote:What happens at these Cabaret's then? Are they like lap-dancing bars or something?
Sorry to appear thick on the subject just want to establish what exactly they are and what goes on.
Men go in and sit on these couches all over the place and order drinks of £10 each etc. Beautiful women come and drape themselves over the men and make the men feel like gods. Plenty of touching and rubbing later the women will say something like "you like brivade" at which point the man then walks off with her to a room upstairs. WHat happens upstairs I am unsure but the man always comes back lighter and happier.
If the man refuses to go upstairs the woman will keep hassling him to buy her a drink, she orders a vodka and a shot of water comes her way, she downs it and that another £10 on your bill. If the man refuses that too he will be asked to leave by the management.
It bares absolutely no resemblance to UK strip clubs.
The main difference as I see it is that instead of stuffing money in a girls g-string you buy them drinks which they get a commission on... The other big difference, like bazouki, dating pubs etc is that if you buy enough drinks you can take the girl out afterwards...
A drink of £10-15 buys you 20-25 minutes of the girls company depending on the cabaret.... 6 drinks usually qualifies you to take the girl out for the night... You then pay her if you take her out... £35-50 whether you have sex or not.. and many dont, they just hang with lonely guys who want company afterwards...
Some will charge you £35 to take a girl upstairs for sex, but they are the seedier ones imho..
Private dances do not have a no touching policy..
I have been with groups of guys and enjoy chatting to some of the girls, many of them have children at home they send money home for, are trying to fund their university education , send money home for their parents etc etc, and can earn as much in one night as they would earn in 2 weeks at home in moldova/ukraine etc etc..
Its very easy to judge the girls, but put yourselves in their shoes, no hope of a decent job at home, and they caqn earn enough in 6 months to buy themselves an apartment, pay for a decent education for them or their children..
Ask yourself how bad it must be for them to do this hateful job for 6 months of a year... And believe me talking to any of them you will find out they all hate it... No wonder they try to marry and stay here...
When I have been I would say there is a split of around 50:50 of single guys and guys in groups...
A few guys take girlfriends/wives, presumeably to pick someone for a threesome...
As for london strip joints, a lot of them will go out with you after closing time if you wish to try... or so I am told, I have never tried..