Paphitis wrote:Pyrpolizer wrote:I had an incident with this guy when I was a kid. His mother urged my mother to go visit them and play with him. They were rich and his bedroom was full of male toys, lead soldiers, "podosferaki" (how the hell is that called in English) guns, whathaveyou. I got thrilled from all those toys, but by the minute I touched them and disturbed the tidy order he had them, he got angry and started screaming like crazy.
I told myself what is this guy, he has so many toys and all he cares is just to have them tidy in his room?? Very strange! I never went to his house to play ever since. I had other more "normal" friends...
But you see, you think your normal is normal when that might not be the case.
What you describe above to me sounds pretty normal. I always say that cleanliness is next to Godliness. I am one of those guys who likes a very tidy and minimalist functional household. Everything has its place and I hate mess with a passion. I do that to make my life easy. When I want something I know where it is and everything is structured to make my life easy.
There is nothing unusual about it.
You didn't understand.I described that, as one of the earliest indications of what that boy was. I was just a Kid then, I paid no attention to it neither did I draw any conclusions.That came yeeears later after I grew up and I understood the world. I think I was about 30 when I saw him again after so many years within a group of gays at Taktakala square. I am sure his parents were recipients of 100s such indications and were doing all they could in pushing him into becoming a normal boy. They were buying him the most expensive and attractive toys they were inviting other boys to play with him etc etc. The boy was simply unresponsive. We grew up in the same little town we then went to nearby schools. I could see him growing up, and I collected more indications, for one he was always playing with girls, and I heard from other guys they were knitting and playing with dolls lol.
For me this boy was of that specific category of gay people who are born like that and I have nothing against them.
But I am totally against people who become gays for reaching new heights in sex. It's the same thing like using cocaine to reach new heights in mood.George Michael was clearly of this category.
